Love is blind or blind love

September 13, 2012 1:53am CST
At what side I am standing ? I am now falling in love to the girl whose age is ten years under me However she loves me very much, but I can't make it because I am shay to the age that I have. I think I am deserve to be her father not a special boyfriend
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@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
If she loves you too, then fight for it. :) There is nothing wrong with falling in love as long as you are on the right attitude. Love is truly mysterious and makes us blind in many ways, that is why most people can't understand it.. but seriously you should go for it..
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
Age doesn't matter in love , my friend, so don't be bothered of the age gap. Normally, in a relationship the man is older than the girl. So, many years older than the girl is still okay. As you have seen the news, there are even lot of old girls being married to men double their ages!
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
Well dear, always remember this: "All is fair in love and in war." So, go and always believe that age does not really matter for as long as you both are in love with each other. I've seen couples whose age gap are bigger than 10 years and they are living happily... so, what is the big deal? Go and pursue the love of your life and may you live happily ever after.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Sep 12
If she is not underage and you truly love her as you said , you should go for it . Love might only come around once in our short lifetime and age is not important with affairs of the heart . It will look awkward to people in public but that the price you will pay for being happy .
• Portugal
13 Sep 12
if she loves you thats what matters. dont worry about your age. she isnt worried right? so dont worry also. ten years can seem a big number but you are not old enough to be her father. besides there are people that look young even though they have a certain age. as long as she feels comfortable with you being much older than her is all ok. if you love her just forget the age. concentrate in showing her how special she is^^
• China
15 Sep 12
Well,in front of love,everything is nothing.However,if it's not,then everything will be a barrier. Ten years is not only a matter of age,but also of your world outlook and outlook on life. If you can accept her shortcomings,and tolerant her immature thoughts ,and understand her heart,mabe you can have a try bravely.
@meticulo (1286)
• United States
13 Sep 12
Hi there! Some people say that age doesn't matter in love. I guess if you truly love her and not just infatuated with her then follow your heart. 10 years is not that very long. Try to explain to her your motive. She might love you back. How will you know she loves you too if you don't express yourselves. So don't hesitate. You might lose the chance and the opportunity.