The many , the merrier ?
By Angelpink
@Angelpink (4031)
Philippines
September 13, 2012 9:28am CST
Life is bit hard nowadays. All got a price and almost all are expensive. The three basic needs are no expensive , education is very much high especially if you are looking for a quality one , medicines are not affordable , nutritious foods are also expensive , clothing is bit okay for we have second hand dresses sold in the market.
We have to consider these things in forming a family. It is never easy to have children , it is so beautiful yet tied with it is the great responsibility.
Lotters , if you are a parent , do you like having one child or you wanted 2 and more children. The many , the merrier ? Do you agree on this line , what is your stand ? Share it..
2 responses
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Hi Angelpink.For some people, they don't have any money issues so the number of their children isn't a problem.For me,we've got 1 child so far.He's 8y/o now.If I'll have another, their age gap is already far.I'm scared of the future.If I'll have another baby, what if my husband and I will die early.The responsibility will be left to our eldest if that's the case.I don't want him to get burdened.I think one baby is enough for us.I hope I won't get pregnant anymore.Sometimes,I feel like having a daughter. :)
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Haha have 1 more , so early yet to retire giving beautiful babies.. Yes no question for rich people to have more children because financially they can support the kids , but morally , emotionally , spiritually not a guarantee . So guess with less children less responsibilities we have.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
13 Sep 12
I always wanted a lot of children but there is no need to have them of my own/be pregnant of my own. I have 5 children of my own and had 11 foster children. At this moment only 3 of my own children are still living with me.
I never thought about the more the merrier, it always was more like: there is room for an other one to give a home. Looking back I don't know if I would take as much children anymore. I think I need more time (way more time) for me. For some reason now it feels my life is nearly over and this is the only thing I never had. Time for me, time to relax, I think this is also one of the reasons why my health is that bad.
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
True you can still have plenty of children without conceiving them. What a good heart you got , raising those children like it comes from your blood and flesh , very exceptional attribute , i admire . So very selfless person m giving her life to saves lives... 5 star for you , yes yes you can have all the luxury you deserve , rest , enjoy for so much already you have done to the world .
