When You Get Your Heart Broken
By diannelee89
@diannelee89 (52)
Philippines
September 13, 2012 7:21pm CST
You do not only get your heart broken over love relationships. There are other things or situations that can easily do the same thing and injure as much.
I had my heart broken when my older sister and I drifted apart. We used to be so close and happy when we were kids. Now that she already started working, everything changed: she became too preoccupied with her career, friends, boyfriend, and other things. I could no longer share with her the things that I used to tell her. Whenever I tried reaching out to her, she just couldn't have the patience to deal with me. She said some really hurtful things to me, and I just could not get it out of my system.
The worst part is, I could not find myself to forgive her. I could not even bare to see her without being reminded of how everything changed between us, how she treated me, and how she made me feel.
It's been over a year... Though I missed her terribly because we no longer lived under the same roof, I continued to avoid all those opportunities to see her or speak with her. The cut was too deep. She broke my heart.
What I do to deal with it? I have not found the perfect solution yet.
3 responses
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
24 Sep 12
why do you tell your troubles to your sister ,and you miss her,i think she will be moved,no matter how many people aroud her,you are special exist,please tell her ,you can do it better,good luck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
I think it would be better to swallow your pride. It hurts me to see siblings who are fighting or not in good relations. I mean, isn't it that our family is the first to help us when we are in need? The love and support that our family gives us is way beyond compare.
Try calling your sister and ask her to have a girls' night out or just to go shopping or spend a day at the spa. Bridge that gap. You'll never know how much she have missed you, too.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
no, do not let breaches interlude in your sisterhood relationship. maybe you can have a good and strong spirit to tell her about a thing and that you are hurt already. she kept on ignoring you because she might not know what was her acts to let you feel down at the moment. better to confide to her for by this, she'll get corrected and would be aware of the situation you gone through. maybe you can restore the relationship as it was before and save each one's feelings
good luck and God bless.
