You can't have a conversation without getting interrupted
By SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
United States
September 14, 2012 5:20pm CST
In this family you can't talk without someone pretty much interrupting you. I do it too so I know that it can be annoying, but I hate when people do it to me. Sometimes the only way to get out what you want to say is to interrupt and talk louder, but then that turns into a fight. People put in their two cents without knowing the full story.
I hate it when it gets me off my train of thought, that's probably what irritates me the most out of it.
Then people wonder why I don't talk to anyone anymore, when it comes to family. Well it's because you can't get a word in edgewise without having to yell over the person, then it starts a fight.
Does anyone else have a family like this?
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6 responses
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
9 Oct 12
I knew a family where they'd all talk at once - and claim they heard what everyone else said... yeah... right...
I know the roomie is tired of trying to talk to her mom because she interrupts and changes the subject all the time. Apparently she did this before the stroke but its much worse since it.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
10 Oct 12
I think what that family heard was what they wanted to hear, regardless of it's really what was being said. I change the subject, but that's only because I'm very random, I don't interrupt unless it's clear they won't let me get my point across at all.
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
16 Sep 12
I don't have family like that but I do work with bunch of people who do that... I just don't put up with it... First time when they interrupt me, I'll just get up & walk away... I did that at a meeting once & my boss asked me where I was going... I told him, "Somewhere I won't be interrupted when I'm talking...!!!"
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
21 Sep 12
I don't think I'd have the balls to do it where I was working unless I was going to quit right then and there. It's just a sign of disrespect to interrupt people, but a statment is made when the person being interrupted doesn't allow the conversation to go on further, just stands up and walks away.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
15 Sep 12
This happens with family and also when we are in a group. We would be talking some serious matter and somebody would pop in trying to make a point. Its irritating many a time. But people fail to realise the importance of listening. Everybody are busy trying to make their point. But at times, I have even seen some patient listeners.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
21 Sep 12
I understand when you want to make a point and you don't want to forget it but there is a respectful way to hush the person talking, not just talking over them.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
15 Sep 12
my father is the same way. when i have a problem with my father i'll try to talk things out and the first thing he does much of the time is start yelling. its like all rationale evaporates from him. i wouldn't say its completely his fault though as he has head problems and its hard for him to take things in. this is why i usually don't talk much with him because its very difficult to get anywhere with him. I also understand what you mean about people putting in their 2 cents without knowing the full story. i don't have much respect for the type of people that do that.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
21 Sep 12
I wasn't exactly talking about when in confrontation, but the result of being talked over leading to a confrontation. That being said when in a confrontation with people sometimes I do walk away, I don't like being yelled at. I have a family member who yells without listening and most of the time the person is completely wrong about what they think is right or they are right about.
Those who talk without knowing the full story, in my opinion, don't want to admit they may be wrong.
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
15 Sep 12
I know the feeling all to well because when I was living with my parents. Everytime I would talk to my parents my sister's kids would always interrupt. You tell them to wait a minute until you are done speaking, but they go right on speaking. One time I told my sister's older son to please keep quiet for a minute and my sister got angry at me because I told her son to please keep quiet. After my nephew went outside I told my sister well, if she taught her kids manners I would not have said anything.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
15 Sep 12
Oh no, this isn't even the kids in my family. Oh no, we tell them to hush and stay hushed if we are speaking until we are done. This is the other people in the family. I am the one that disclipines the kids when they are being bad here, my sister doesn't mind as she knows it works. I just say "Front and Center" and they come stand in front of me and are quiet until I've asked each one what it was that warranted the front and center...
@Otanetix (508)
• United States
15 Sep 12
To be honest, with my family, I don't really contribute much to the conversation. Most of the time it's the older relatives usually conversing with my parents. Every so often the relatives that are around my age and younger also kind of stay quiet with occasionally making some small talk. For instance, school or work is a common topic that are asked by them. Anyway, the topics my parents talk with the older relatives usually talk about something going on with other relatives I either have not met or do not speak with often. When my parents step out of the room for a little bit, that's usually the only time my older relatives talk to me, which can be very awkward; they also make small talk with just asking a couple questions just for a few minutes. Then there's just silence until my parents come back to the room.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
21 Sep 12
This happens with my great aunts come down to visit. I forget which is which and they seem to know more about me then I rememebr about them. I usually stay quiet and just try to be respectful answering questions.





