oh crap...not this again...
By birdie816
@birdie816 (1276)
United States
September 14, 2012 7:49pm CST
ok so a few weeks ago i made a post about the weirdness between me, my husband and my brother in law. well i thought that whole situation was not gonna happen but i literally just found out that my brother in law has to stay at our place (instead of us coming to his and his wife's house). he went back to jail and him and his brother are close so my husband has to get him. he has nowhere else to go because his wife and kids are moving across the country because their house went into foreclosure while he was in jail. so he has to come live with us for an undetermined amount of time....ugh...i am sooo not looking forward to this...
3 responses
@marguicha (215424)
• Chile
15 Sep 12
Why doesn´t he go where his family is? Or does he have to stay in on parole? Do you mind him because you don´t want anyone at your house or do you specially dislike your BIL?
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
17 Sep 12
he would originally have to stay in the state where his parole officer is but his family's house went into foreclosure. so he was gonna have to stay with us, but now i have no idea where he is staying. also after spending a few days with him, i have decided i officially dont like him. so yes it is specifically my brother in law i dont like. he is seriously a man wh*re and has no respect for anyone..not even his brother.
@watchamacallitz (1171)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
try to understand, he has nowhere to go and he's your brother in law. Give him time to sort himself out. Say, if it has been a month already and he's still bumming around your place, then that's the time you can talk this over with your husband.
The economy is really bad and he should get himself to any work and not depend on others to pay for his bills and food. Just give him time, for now. I hope this would help :)
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
17 Sep 12
well as luck would have it, i don't think he will be staying here after all. i am very relieved (although he did stay one night. i am glad that is over because that was weird enough). but you are right. he still needs to get a job...
@Rxpertsven (82)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
i don"t get it. what's with your brother in law? and your weirdness? and why is he staying at your house?hmmmm...
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
17 Sep 12
well i made a reference to an earlier post that i made here (read it if you want to understand better). anyway i just really don't like him and he will sleep with anything that moves (including me). he has messed up relationships with family and friends and his brother (my husband) is the only one who will take him in.
