When you have a misunderstanding with someone...
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
September 15, 2012 1:37am CST
Sometimes when you have a misunderstanding with the people you love, with your family and your friends, it is really hard to let a day, or even hours and minutes pass without you trying to fix the misunderstanding, right? I mean in my case if i know that i have a conflict with a friend, bf, etc and i havent talked and clarified the issue, i would be thinking about it, i would be be really bothered until we get to talk to each other and clarify whatever the misunderstanding was.
Are you like this too? Or do you allow a day pass by and just talk about the issue the next day or the next chance you get just to cool things down(say if there was an argument) and not make peace with the person as soon as possible so you won't have that bad feeling of being not in good terms with someone?
2 responses
@namiya (1721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
I normally let the situation cool down before making a step towards reconciliation. Not letting a day pass to patch up differences is an ideal move however sometimes there are situations and factors that won't work favorably while the issue is still very hot. Hence, for me good timing will be more effective.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
thank you namiya for your response. i guess that is what should be happening.. but for me i am not comfortable to sleepn on an argument.. =( i guess i should learn to let things pass first and be patient. :D hehe i need to practice on timing, perhaps and know how it can be of an advantage to not rush.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Well it depends on the situation there are things that needs time and space
before fixing the misunderstanding. But for me I do respect the person if she/he
wants to fix it right away or not. I will do the first move specially of I'm
wrong but I will do it with the right timing too.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
thank you lyn. i guess that is right. most of the time we rush into things, like trying to fix something with out being careful and it adds more damage than actually cure or help fix the prblem. thank you for your response to the discussion, see you around and happy mylotting!
