just sneaking and taking a peak for my boyfriend is in the hospital
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
September 17, 2012 3:51am CST
for few days now, i had not been able to participate in here because my boyfriend is in the hospital. he met an accident while meeting me halfway while driving a motorcylce. i was so scared during that time, anticipating and having bad thoughts to his health condition. his mother called me first as she told me on what had happened to his son. i do not know what to do, so nervous and about to collapse too. but collecting my self to have a strength in dealing about this matter because no one can help me as wend there alone. sobbed as i walked in the pavement.
glad he called me few minutes more as i decided to take a walk for i need to calm down and to give myself a reconciliation. he told me that, love am in the hospital and replied back that, yeah, i know. i am heading now and be there in seconds. poor boy, wounds and swelling face he got. he also lose his two teeth at down part of is mouth. could cry but i need to be brave. i asked the doctor about his condition and told me that he needs to be admitted in the hospital for some observations. so he had been x-rayed that night.
few more things to be done to see him kicking again. maybe tomorrow we get him out in the hospital. because, yucky to say, hospital's odour is more sickening than getting to have cure in there.
i thought he'll die but thanks God for saving him...
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8 responses
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 Sep 12
I'm jealous. I don't know how jealous, since you're not clear on 'how bad he is'; but I got through my nearly-fatal brain-injury on nothing but my family & a few friends who all pretty-much only 'hoped I felt better soon.' Maybe if I'd had a girlfriend/wife who was depending on me to get better, I would've improved even more than my current pathetic-but-happy condition! 
So how bad is he? I don't hope he's as-bad-as/worse-than me, but--if he is--know that he needs you to need him, and you can show him how much you need him by recognizing- and giving him-what he needs (he needs you to need him to be happy, to need him to be satisfied with what he is doing, to serve him like the king you know he is, as a good queen serves her man.)
So how bad is he? I don't hope he's as-bad-as/worse-than me, but--if he is--know that he needs you to need him, and you can show him how much you need him by recognizing- and giving him-what he needs (he needs you to need him to be happy, to need him to be satisfied with what he is doing, to serve him like the king you know he is, as a good queen serves her man.)1 person likes this
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
hey there boy, hi
im sure you are jealous because during the time of your accident, do not have a woman at your side. ahmpt! so i guess for now you already her and if not, you can start seeking her 
his face was badly injured and have a fractured on the lining of the his right face. grrr... the nurse laughed at me as i approached him to see the film of the x-ray result. because he taught it was funny for me to asked him like that for he showed me the interpretation of the x-ray which he believed much better than thus film itself. well, i said to him, sir i just want to see precise part where he have the fractured bone so that we can be aware and be conscious not to touch it tough in times we will going to clean his face and put put some medicine to cure it faster. i also added, that what was written is medical terminologies so how can he expect me to understand those all. see, if it is not bad to call him bad words because of his close minded actuations i tell it to him frankly. but no use for that. then after that went to the x-ray lab for that.
i wish he will be totally healed to think that he has a fractured bones in his face. poor boy...
thanks there for this concer... and with a hope that you are all well from your past injury... be well... :)
im sure you are jealous because during the time of your accident, do not have a woman at your side. ahmpt! so i guess for now you already her and if not, you can start seeking her
his face was badly injured and have a fractured on the lining of the his right face. grrr... the nurse laughed at me as i approached him to see the film of the x-ray result. because he taught it was funny for me to asked him like that for he showed me the interpretation of the x-ray which he believed much better than thus film itself. well, i said to him, sir i just want to see precise part where he have the fractured bone so that we can be aware and be conscious not to touch it tough in times we will going to clean his face and put put some medicine to cure it faster. i also added, that what was written is medical terminologies so how can he expect me to understand those all. see, if it is not bad to call him bad words because of his close minded actuations i tell it to him frankly. but no use for that. then after that went to the x-ray lab for that.
i wish he will be totally healed to think that he has a fractured bones in his face. poor boy...
thanks there for this concer... and with a hope that you are all well from your past injury... be well... :)
@deazil (4723)
• United States
17 Sep 12
I'm so glad he's not very seriously hurt. I know you must be so worried. He'll be fine and kicking again, you'll see. Motorcycles are very dangerous, but lots of fun to ride on. When I have heard of motorcycle accidents, it's usually a car driver's fault. They just don't watch out for cyclists. You stay strong for your bf. Everything will be okay.
Motorcycles are very dangerous, but lots of fun to ride on. When I have heard of motorcycle accidents, it's usually a car driver's fault. They just don't watch out for cyclists. You stay strong for your bf. Everything will be okay.@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
kongno thanks... he should be and God will help him for that... uhmpt - he has a fractured on his face lining at the left part of it. but the doctor said that it will be healed as time goes on. upon hearing that one assurance, i am sad now but it is quiet relieving. he have lots of plans in his mind to us and to his family. and he is too young to commit total failures in life and cannot recovered at all. glad that even he has this fracture, his brain is not being affected to worsen his health condition.. thanks kongno
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Glad your BF seems to be okay for now. I think you are brave enough for staying strong for him. I guess that is what he needs right now some love ones taking care of him.
I am hoping with you there beside him all the way he would recover fast and will be fit again. As for the teeth lose, I guess it can be replaced by false teeth I guess so for now focus on his wounds that it will be given proper care so it would heal faster.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
hi there rsa:)
he is okay but not totally fine... i had this bad feeling every night in the hospital because he will be having a fever and he could feel headache. maybe because he has a fractured lining in his right part of the face.
i will be staying with him throughout times more in time like this. i do not care about his appearance now or even before because i know that my bf is not a good looking guy but even he have weaknesses, it is still manageable to be a better person; maybe a perception when being in love truly :D
yes, thanks there for inspiring me in there... as you said, i will play my part not because i have to but because as girl which is being concern with his boy.
thanks there :)
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Isn't it such great relief knowing that your boyfriend is out of danger? Some things are really unavoidable and all we can do is to pick up all the pieces again and start anew. Your boyfriend is so lucky to be able to survive the accident. Some are not as lucky. hope he recovers soon.
Some things are really unavoidable and all we can do is to pick up all the pieces again and start anew. Your boyfriend is so lucky to be able to survive the accident. Some are not as lucky. hope he recovers soon.@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
such a relieve but i am still worried about him for still he made complains about his aching part of the body especially in his face. well, face is part of the head, and we know how fragile is that part for brain could be located in there. i am still praying for his total recovery. i can still see wounds and bruises on his legs and face and to his lips also. poor boy :(
thanks for the inspiration given to me.... best wishes too... thanks
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
17 Sep 12
I am sorry your boy friend met with an accident and that too when he was riding to meet you. Please be confident nothing will happen to him. you are right the hospital odour makes one sickening. Please pray to God for his recovery quickly.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
hi there sir ravi..
yes, intense and heartfelt prayer for his recovery. i was so really scared, unexplainable feeling if i would lost him. i just leave him in his house for i need to comply with my school requirements for prefinal... you know examination days started today and until on saturday. so i need to catch up... after doing all the tasks, i will attend his needs and tendering him to support and of his aid.
God bless sir and to my bf... thanks
@zeonstar (54)
• India
17 Sep 12
this is very bad news for us, i thank to god , that he may save his life , we all have very thank full to god for his kindness upon us. you take the extra care about him and give him the proper medicine and diet to make him recover very fast.i also salute to you that you are very nice and kind person towards your relation,it seems that you are very close to him and his family ,this is your greatness, good very good, keep it up this spirit.....god may give the peace and love to both of you.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
thank you so much for the inspiring words. yes - i am close with his family and we have good bondings already... yes am close with him too for we are doing this relationship with each one for 8 years almost. he have his medicine as prescribed by doctor. i wish for his total recovery so that he can continue his plans in his career for us and to his family. i do not want to loose him.
thanks for uplifting my spirit... God bless
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
17 Sep 12
You did the right thing, you did not let him see you scared and crying. He would have been more affected if he sees you in that condition. Be strong for yourself and for him. He needs your strength now more than ever until he recovers completely. But at least the worst is over. It's just a matter of time before he comes bouncing back again. This time I hope he will be extra extra careful. It may not be his fault but of course, we can never say the same for the other motorists.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
thanks for that uplifting-soul words you got there... yes, he was sent home and released from the hospital yesterday. he thanked me for everything but for me, no need for him to do that. but on the other side it is nice to know that he appreciated all my concerns to him. well, that is just a right thing to do for he is a special person to me. yes, too bad of him not to wear helmet during that time. gosh... but whatever, should be a lesson to everyone, especially to all the drivers out there for accident cannot be predicted and that it will really occur at all instances and of time, wanted or not.
thanks
