true friends stab you in the front
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
September 17, 2012 12:51pm CST
I lately like looking for quotes online. I read this simple quote from oscar wilde..
if you think about it what he says is extremly true. I always appreciated someone who had the courage to tell me if they don't like something about me. my sister in law is like that. if she thinks something doesn't look good on you than she tells you. this is why I thrust her to go shopping for example. she has the courage to tell me when I'm wrong and I appreciate her so much for that
7 responses
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
17 Sep 12
We are a group of friends who are in good relation since we were children and we are always honest to each other. We make fun of each other, we laugh about each other, but we are always honest and direct, because this is the best way to keep friends closely. And the most important thing, we are there for each other in need, we are like brothers and I am convinced that we will never stab each other in the back. When we have problems with each other, we talk about them and try to resolve them. Till this moment, we have succeeded doing so and I really hope that this group of friends will remain intact till we die. Because true friends are hard to find and if friendships last from childhood, they must be honest friendships.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
17 Sep 12
I think the same, that it is a very good thing to have real friends in my life. And I can say this because we are like this for more than 12 years now, so they are valuable people in my life. Of course, we had some rough times every now and then, but everything was sorted out.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Sep 12
you're lucky to have friends like that. I tought the same but sadly in my case I was prooven I was wrong. anyway I guess I should be more careful when I choose my friends
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
17 Sep 12
Well thank u so much for the lovely post. Yes it is good when people comment you on your face rather than at your back. It is then only we can modify or bring changes in our lives. It is better to have one good friend than many fake friends who are always deceiving in nature. True friends have the courage to speak the truth no matter how bitter it may be.
What say?
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Sep 12
true. aldo truth sometimes might hurt the people you love they'll learn to appreciate it. if they don't listen to what you have to say than you did your part. the rest is up to them
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
That's true friendship with real people.
True friends are the ones who sees the wrong in you and helped you to changed.
True friends are the ones who says what's they feel directly into your face rather than gossiping behind your back.
True friends are the ones who shout into your face that you are wrong and guided you to the right path.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Sep 12
I can't stand people who gossip behind my back. I mean if you have a problem with me than tell me in front.
but what should a true friend do when you tell your friend he is wrong when doing something but he still doesn't listen to what you're saying and continues whatever he's doing?
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
i say that this is true. i do have a friend whom I am very vocal with my comments to. she complained that I am not that careful of my words to her but i always remind her that it is good that i say it to her directly than she hearing those ugly comments from her back. at least she knows I am not a plastic friend
@Shavkat (137307)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
I agree, I don't someone to stab at my back. I would feel better, if they will tell me the problem, right in front of my face. That's being a true friend.
@mamaging (12)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
it's nice to know the truth even though it hurts..I like and I appreciate prank person. It's good to here their compliment but sometimes it's too much and it can offend other's. So me I usually analyze the words before it comes out from my mouth. I don't want to hurt people's feeling.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
18 Sep 12
I think if your friend is true, they would dare to speak out truth. Those who are not sincere, they just pamper you. This is because they dont really care even if something bad happens with you. Its always nice to have a bunch of true friends.
