I am sure my son is not brain paralysis
September 17, 2012 6:03pm CST
I am sure my son is not brain paralysis.My son was born this summer,when he was born,the amniotic fluid is less and was contaminated.He was born at 5:00 a.m. Then his skin was breakage,we all worried about,the nurse wash for him carely annd say she can't wash too long time.That day,my son suck nipple less and drink less,sleep long time,afternoon,my brother let me embrace my son to the paediatric room,the doctor askd me my son born program,and pull my son's arms.She told us my son is amniotic fluid contaminated,should use medicine,she let us move my son to the ICU and put the warm box.She write the medicine list let me take the medicine and let us leave.We only saw my son at 16:00 everyday.My son stay in ICU 3 days,my family all anxious.That day,the nurse call me say we can move my son to popular sickroom,we all are glad.In the maternal and child care service centre,my son lived 8 days and transfuse fluid 7 days.The doctor let us make CT for my son's brain.She said if the CT show brain has abnormal we should transfuse fluid 10 days.My son only 8 days,I unwillingness to make CT for his brain,but my mother and my sister prefer to do according to doctor's guide.After my son made the CT,we carried the CT to find the doctor,the doctor is in her officeroom,the vice director see the CT,he told us the brain hasn't out blood,is lack oxygen,and he said my son shouln't make hyperbaric oxygen therapy,and let us transfuse fluid 17 days.My God!!! My heart was very sadly,my family are worried.We bare painess 15 days,my son leave hospital finally.But when we leave the hospital,the director told us we should transfuse fluid after 1 month to make the second treat program,and the third treat program is 3 month later. When my son was 1 month,we come to hospital make the second treat program.My son was transfused medicine 7 days,the director let us leave the hospital. When I think my son's illness was cured,my sister told me my son's eyes always look to up and don't wink,she listen the doctor said that is show of lack oxygen.She suggest we bring my son to the children hospital to make examine.In the children hospital,the doctor said my son lack oxygen,should be transfuse fluid and make hyperbaric oxygen therapy and make cerebral circulation.My son live in the children hospital in August 26th,2012, live 20 days in the hospital.My son was give an acupuncture everyday,it is very painful.Sometimes the nurse can't perform acupuncture successful at one time,they will stab again,my son cried loudly,my heart is painful. One time,the nurse stab the needle into the blood vessel,but hasn't drop the medicine,the needle through the blood vessel and skin reveal the needle,lots of blood current from my son's head,we were very angry. One time,the nurse was prepare to stab,her fingers carry the needle,but the needle touck my son's head,accompany my son's cry sound,the blood was current from my son's head.My son's head was very haplessly. One time,I let the nurse to withdrawal of the needle,but the nurse forget bring the cotton swab,she open the glue,but have no cotton swab to press the needle hole,she would use the blood cotton swab,but careless make my son's head curren blood.My God!!! ... The things let we angry very much!!! Now my son leave the children hospital,but he is still make chirismus in the hospital.The doctor said his muscular tension is high,let us make an appointment next treat program hyperbaric oxygen therapy,but we didn't do as her guidance. My son's leg is very strong,but his feet touch the desktop is normal.I am sure my son is not brain paralysis. My God and my goddess,don't let my son have a rough time.Let him have a healthy body!!! Let him have a happily life!!!
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17 Sep 12
I am also a mother and I understand how you feel in seeing your son go through a lot in such an early age. But sometimes, things are just beyond our control. We really need to make him well, otherwise , we might regret it later. The nurses who were not in par with their duties should be reported to the hospital administrator. They should perform with utmost care most especially in dealing with newborns. I suggest that you continue with the treatment required for your son. Having lack of oxygen in the brain can be seriously damaging. I pray that you have the strength to hold on to your son's medical condition and also I pray that your son be out of danger soon. Do not lose hope.
18 Sep 12
Thanks,my friend.Now my son needn't to stab needles,he is make chirismus.His legs are strong,we afraid he become brain paralysis.I record the doctor's chirismus,I study chirismus,for my son.I think my son will better and better,I hope he is a lucky boy.In China,this year is dragon year,it is a lucky year,I hope my son is a happy angel. Thanks for your pray,my friend.Thanks very much!!!
18 Sep 12
Reading your post made my heart cry. Your baby is still very young but he's already experiencing a lot of pains in life. I hope we can take away those pains but I guess we can't. I hope nurses will be more careful and always ready when they will perform something. Let's pray that your son will son recover from that condition immediately. I hope that God will give your son a healthy, normal life.
18 Sep 12
Oh, that's the least thing I could do. Prayers are always heard. Let's just pray and have faith in God. Your son will be okay. Just do what his doctors tell you. It's the best for him. It's good to hear that your baby is okay now. Continue massaging his body especially in the morning.
19 Sep 12
Yesterday,after we finish the massage,we bring my son to see doctor,the doctor said"now your son is 3 month,it is time to make a CT to review,afraid appear encephalatrophy,cerebral hemorrhage or hydrocephalus..." My God,her words let my body shudder.God protect my son,I pray...
18 Sep 12
Thanks,angelkarah,my dear friend. My son is OK now,he has leave the hospital.When I embrace him,I always massage his feet and hands and legs,massage his whole body,let he have a comfortable feeling.I think accompany his growth,pleasure and smile always around him. Thanks your care.
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18 Oct 12
Hi, my friend! Soory to hear that your son had to go through so much pain and difficulties in such an early age, just don't get worry too much, just remember to follow through whatever medication and treatment your doctor prescribed for your son after he left the hospital, keep up the treatment and check up on a regular basic, if he is allowed to be transfer out the hospital now n live outside, his condition may not be as bad as you think it is, he is getting stronger every day and if he can pull through all these pains at such an early age, he should be able to overcome all adversity later in his life, he is a naturally born fighter, you should have feed him with nutritious food daily to enhance his own immunity system, he will not suffer from brain paralysis, he will be alright, be cheerful! Keep up your faith and be strong for him over there, he may still need much supports from you and everyone at home until he grow older. I am sure he will overcome all these early childhood problems without a doubt after he left the children hospital.
23 Oct 12
Thanks for your care,my friend. Now,my son is 4 month age,he is very health and strong.My son have good sleep and happily play time.He let my family fill smile and song.When I embrace my son I always sing for him.His name is hang,I sing "my hanghang my hanghang",let him smile.Through he can't speak,but he open his little mouth sounding. My son as an angel,his eyes are very bright and big.I am sure he is very clever. Everyday my brother amuse my son,but my son don't give my brother smile face,but if my son's aunt amuse him,he always smile,we all make my son a joke,he is a little lady-killer...HAHA :)
30 Sep 12
I think human body returns with its soundness, shape and functionality with the increase of age. I think your little son must come to its normal life. My son was born with a deformed head. But later on with the increase of age it got normal shape. The pain you got as well as you son is for the betterment of your son. Some times we can tolerate going through such a hard situation. Your son and you stay well.
3 Oct 12
Thanks!My friend. I am sorry to hear that your son was born with a deformed head.You told me later on with the increase of age it got normal shape,my heart become warm,best wishes to your son. Now,my son is Okey!I think my son has leave the bad luck,start his happy life. Everyday,we play with him to let him laugh,we hope the smile hangs on his face everyday. Good Luck!!! My friend. Work hardly,for our children.