Spying on the Babysitter with a Hidden Camera..

@Jshean20 (14349)
Canada
September 19, 2012 11:22pm CST
A friend of my family is going through some apparent issues with the babysitter of the household, I didn't ask for details so I'm not sure why they are so concerned however it's to the point that they now have a hidden camera spying on the babysitter. I don't know why, but to me this seems wrong. If you have suspicions of the babysitter it's probably time to look for a new one, on the other hand if they have nothing to hide it shouldn't be a big deal that they are being watched. I'm a bit on the fence as to what I think. What are your thoughts.
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13 responses
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
everyone is entitled to its own right and can claim it and guard or protect it not to be out-righted with anywhom as i suppose. like the helper needs privacy and so as the boss needs assurance that his/her child is in the right hand. well, having a spy is quiet suffocating but the babysitter will be monitored in the house. one incident happened in this country that they installed camera in their house without the knowledge of the helper. what they saw there was appropriate to their suspicion that there were things happened not so good between the helper and the baby. because too nasty that the nanny kissed the baby on the lips and passed saliva to the baby. they found it out by having a camera in their home. in my case, if i were the nanny; i need not to be worried and why should i? the boss can install it to all of the walls in their house, for all i care as long as i know what should i do and do things rightly. for sometimes, some workers would not do good to their duty and this one would initiate their boss to make some actions pertaining to this case. as long as the boss would treat me right and have a good relationship to me, having a camera in their house would be no problem at all. just make your duty and do the best you can. maybe by this, they will decide to remove the camera in their house or yet, if not like it, there were lots of houses that needs services from others. so transfer or do according to what one wants. thanks
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
You have a point. A lot of employers have cameras installed already but I suppose it just seems more invasive when you have no idea that you're being watched, it's almost a creepy feeling.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
For me, spying is something that is violating one's privacy. If they have such suspicions towards that particular babysitter, maybe they should approach her and have some conversations to settle things.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
20 Sep 12
That's what I think also. Or if the suspisions are that serious and they have a bad enough feeling, I think it's time to let the babysitter go.
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• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Confrontation is still a better option. It will be unfair if you just kick that babysitter without even hearing her side.
@tweetyfe (191)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
no why you confront it, if the work is good. spying is the best way to see more with in the facility of your household is good enought for your baby, after you see the wrong doing of your babysitter the better option is talk with him and inform asking the moment like this.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
21 Sep 12
Honestly I am confused on it myself. It's a violation of a person's privacy (the babysitter) but the right of the parents to know what is going on, and if the babysitter isn't forthcoming... I suppose this would be the first step before firing her or him. Besides, the babysitter may be doing something so wrong that needs to be dealt with at a court / judicial level.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
I don't think they are worried about whether or not this videotape might affect their trial in court, they are more so just concerned with getting rid of the babysitter if it's necessary.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
23 Dec 12
the video would not be admissable as evidence if she did not let the sitter know she was being watched so she may as well do it right or warn the sitter.
• United States
20 Sep 12
If they suspect that the babysitter is committing a crime (such as theft or child abuse), it makes sense to set up some hidden cameras. Then, if their suspicions are founded, they have evidence, and they can go to the police. Without that evidence, it is simply their word against hers. As long as the cameras are not set up in areas where one would have reason to expect privacy, such as the bathroom, I see no problem with it. Also, video recording should be perfectly legal; audio recording, however, depends on the state. In the future, your friends may wish to simply have babysitters sign a contract stating that they understand that they may be recorded and agree to this action being taken. Then, even if your friends choose not to record, the person is still on her/his best behavior, since (s)he is going in knowing that there is a good chance that there are cameras hidden throughout the house.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
But to me if they are suspecting this, they are putting their child back in danger by "testing" to see if it's revealed on camera, to me it's like gambling your child and it doesn't seem worth it.
@TeamCholent (2832)
• United States
20 Sep 12
They need to be careful as there are laws in many states prohibiting this form of conduct without approval(just like a recording of a phone conversation). I agree with you if they suspect something it is time to find someone else as how can you run your life while you don't trust people you hired to take care of the kids? Happy MyLotting
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
20 Sep 12
I don't understand how they could enjoy their evening out knowing that their kids "might" not be in good hands and that they are being spyed on, to me this seems like a gamble with your kids which seems beyond foolish.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
I understand the whole concep behind it, I just know if it was me babysitting I'd feel violated for some reason being on camera without knowing. It doesn't mean I'd be hiding something, it would just be a creepy feeling to find out someone was spying on you.
@tweetyfe (191)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
sometimes this is the problem you hire people because is needed, the personality, character etc is not enough to trust people, but many cases you stay in the house your babysitter is hardworking to take care of your kids, what happened if your presence 8hrs he did not see your kids, its only the babysitter to take care of it, what is your assurance if your kids its safe? hidden camera is good to monitor the act of your babysitter.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
You must have seen or heard news about nannies or baby sitters who maltreat these kids. And I think the best way to appease our minds while we are out of the house is to set up a CCTV to check on how our baby sitters treat our kids.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
Yes Jenny unfortunately I've heard all kinds of disturbing things on the news involving childcare, elderly care and pet care--lots of disurbing things in this world. I'm pretty sure I won't be hiring a babysitter ever, they will only be allowed to be alone with my closest family members.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
As much as I want to have help so that I can do other things, like getting myself a job to help my husband, I opted to be a stay at home mom coz I feel my kids are not safe with other people. There was one incident that I hired a nanny. She came in the morning before I was off to work.I told her everything that she needs to do. I have even bought her some stuff for her to use. When I got home, I saw my baby still wearing the same clothes I have put on in the morning and the diaper was unchanged! What made me real mad was seeing that the diaper was soiled and yet the nanny didn't know about it. It was her first day and I was fuming mad I told her to leave the house immediately. I mean, that was her first day of work, and what else could she possible do next?
• United States
17 Jan 21
Nanny cams are legal in all 50 states, however some states specify that only video is allowed (no audio) unless both parties are aware of the recordings (recorder/ recordee). Also there are limits to where you can place nanny cams - you can NOT place them in restrooms, nor can you place them in the bedroom of a live-in nanny .... Nanny cams can be beneficial for helping protect children/ the elderly/ anyone being cared for by another individual/etc from abuse and/ or neglect. Nanny cams can also help protect the babysitter from false claims of abuse/neglect by proving that they were actually doing their job (and false claims could potentially tarnish their reputation beyond repair)... So as long as the babysitter is doing their job the way they should; and the parents/ home owners placing the nanny cams double check their particular state laws on the do's and don't s and stay within the legal rights their state sets, then there shouldn't be any [legal] problems for either party involved...
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
23 Dec 12
In my opinion it is wrong and says a lot about your friend. First off it is illegal. Beyond that why is she having anyone at all watch her kids whom she does not 100% trust? I get it that those people are sometimes hard to find. Still, legally you haveto warn them. An abusive person or a theif will forget about the cameras and mess up. I used to babysit and Id of been insulted and angry at such a thing. I cant tell you how many times I slipped around to the kitchen while the kids were playing to quickly change a shirt that had been soiled or the weather changed.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
If I were in that situation I don't think I would go to the extent of using a hidden camera. If I am suspicious then why would I just resolve it by terminating the services of the housemaid. I don't think there will be smoke without fire so instead of putting a hidden camera I would rather just tell the maid that I am not satisfied with her services so she's fired and has to leave. I have all the right to fire someone I don't trust anymore anyway.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
Our gut usually gives good indications on a situation, to me it wouldn't be worth keeping someone who I didn't have a good feeling about.
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Some houses really have spy cameras. I just there's nothing in the toilet or bathrooms. That's already different. I guess there'll be no privacy anymore. Goodluck to that babysitter. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
20 Sep 12
Well if the babysitter has done nothing wrong I certainly feel bad for her. At the same time I think it's crazy that the parents are playing "what if" and still putting the kids in a potentially dangerous situation and gambling, if I had doubts or suspicions of any kind they would not be left alone with my kids.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Sep 12
If they have doubts about their babysitter then it is high time to look for a new one to relieve them from their worries. I don't think it is fair to keep someone under surveillance.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
I think it's important for parents to have peace of mind with the babysitter. If they are out at work or having fun, the last thing they want to be thinking is about wheter or not their child is in good hands.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
20 Sep 12
My thoughts are ??????? How sick can the friend of your family be. Or should I say: how can a person with a kid have such a lack of self esteem and be so less adult. Sorry but if you have a problem with your babysitter you say that straight ahead, you ask questions, ask for a respons, you give someone the right to say his/her opinion. If that is not satisfying you find someone else. How hard can that be.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
Certainly asking the right questions is not hard at all. The problem is that people can put on a good show and fake their character, behind closed doors they can be completely different people. Think of some of the seriel killers out there, sometimes neighbors and people they knew in their life are so shocked and say how "out of character" it seemed for that person, as they are good at faking their personality.
@lifes97 (884)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Dec 12
that is the best thing, you are leaving your baby with stranger, you have to observe them and check on them if you are going for long time