when you are 30 years old,what do you should have?

China
September 23, 2012 1:12am CST
i'm 24 years old,but i think when i'm 30 years old,what i should have?a car?a child? a marriage certificate?a divorce certificate?my own house?my career?and so on,what life do you want to have?
6 responses
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
23 Sep 12
I discussed with my sister today and i suupose this is so important to us.Many people are not sure what we are gonna be when we are in the thirties.So it is full of challenging.I will try to satify myself most normal things and make my parents live good life.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
I am 35 years old. And I am proud to say that I have reached my goals and ambitions in life of having a nice job which helps me to feed my family and pay for my financial obligations. I am single, which I think because of my gender, will not lead to being a double (lol). And this point of time, I think the very great achievement that I have is to send my nephew and niece to college. Wow. A very great achievement for me!
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
23 Sep 12
Everyone has their own dreams and goals and their own path to reach them. It will happen when the time is right. You shouldn't worry about getting things accomplished before certain birthdays. Sometimes they happen sometimes they don't happen within a certain time. Focus on reaching your goals but don't get so hung up on the numbers.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
I just turned 31 this week. When I was your age, many people think that I have the best guy in town. He is tall, goodlooking, smart, educated and works as an engineer in a well known government owned corporation. So that time, I always thought that few years after or before I reach 30, we're already married and I am living a good and happy life with him and our kids. Not realizing that anything can happen in just a blink of eye. We broke up after 7 years of being together and that moment I realized that I haven't really think of something that would fulfill me as an individual. There are so many factors that can affect our decision, our plans or even our future in general. I know that there is nothing wrong with planning or setting a goal. Keep your focus to achieve them. Prepare a back up plan so that when things don't turn out the way you expect them to be, you won't be left unarmed. Also, bear in mind that nothing is constant in this world. There are more valuable and important things in life that we should achieve than possessing material things.
• China
23 Sep 12
I'm 24 years old too. And when I'm 30 years old, what I most wanna have is a peaceful and strong heart which could handle all of my emotions and all of question in my life. If I can have more it should be a dog, or more one cat.LOL
• India
23 Sep 12
I just turned 18. By the time I turn 18, I expect myself to stand on my own legs without anyone's help including my parents. Now I rely on my parents for almost every single thing including my food,shelter and studies. By the time I turn 30, I expect myself to be well settled in my life. I should probably be owning a car, having a nice lovely wife, parents should be with me. Also I expect myself to visit as many countries as possible as I want a good travelling experience by the time I finish my life, i want to visit every single marvels created by the god.