tons of questions from a friend..

When I went to night clubs it was to socialize or to sing karaoke. I think as far as a man going to a night club to see naked woman, it's a man thing to do. Men like to look at women, as long as it doesn't go any further than just looking. I no longer go to night clubs very often because it can get expensive, I'd rather stay at home and drink and not be worried about drinking and driving.

Most people go to night clubs to relax, dance and have fun.

I don't go to night clubs. I don't like loud noises or having too many people around. I like to relax at home with my children and just watch tv or just playing games with them. Your friend's partner must be drifting away from her that he needs to relax with other people. Tell her that it's not her but it's her partner. Perhaps, he just needs something that she cannot give. But I would advice her to talk with her partner and let him know that what he's doing is not something that she likes. If her partner still values their relationship then he would listen to her but if he doesn't, perhaps it's time for her to consider other options.

It's not really about being cool or ego building its just about relaxing and having a good time. Sure some people might go there because their relationship is on the rocks but most don't, for most people its just enjoying their sexuality. I take it your friends partner went to a club? may I ask why it upset her?