True Love or Real Lust?
@thelopautheory (27)
Philippines
September 24, 2012 6:11am CST
Many people nowadays, have gone completely insane with the society's convincing persuasion of change. Everything has actually changed, the way the guys treat girls, and the way girls treat guys, as well. For the guys, what really attracts you with girls? Is it their pretty face, sexy body and nice butt? When you tell them you love them, do you really mean it with your heart? How about you girls? Is the guy's slick car or his unlimited spending bucks that you like in him the most? People are becoming more and more greedy to material things, that's why they are not happy. Happiness is something you can never buy, and its something you can never loose, as well. We'll find more happiness in true love, not in relationships just covered with glitters.
3 responses
@estremms (324)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Love is beyond our capacity to understand. Maybe what attracted us first to the partner we chose was because of the appearance or the material things. But later on these were all just vehicles to the love that we will feel towards them as time passes by. I have witness it among friends they say that what they're feeling now is the real thing - true love - so they get married but later on separated on just a short time together. But I also saw other friends who I thought wouldn't have a lasting relationship because I thought that they're basis for choosing the one they're with now is just the appearance and wealth of their respective partners. No one can really judge someone for choosing their partners .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
28 Sep 12
Yes People tend to get caught up with hype and this has been happening for ages not just now . People are taking less and less time to get to know a person inside .
They complain that they cannot find a good partner but they are not looking for a good partner, they are looking for bling. They are not willing to talk to certain people unless you have certain thing , come from certain place have certain name .
True we cannot buy love and happiness and you really can never lose them once you got them .
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Sep 12
Hi,
You are right. True love cannot be found in things that glitters but on real relationship between people that sees behind what is material. It is sort of a spiritual thing, more intangible than the object of our senses.
An interaction based on what we perceive doesn't last that long compared to that which seeks proof of commitment based not on what one can get out of that union but on what one can give beyond the boundaries of space and time.
