Should I wear sexy clothes for my boyfriend or not

China
September 25, 2012 10:02am CST
My boyfriend always want me to dress up like a lady, dignified and magnanimous, but I like wearing sexy clothes, for example short skirt, tight T-shirt and high heels. But I find him always look at girls with sexy clothes in bars and on street. I think he is a contradictory guy, how about your boyfriend?
5 responses
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Hello friend, When I'm with my boyfriend, I just wear normal clothes (Tshirt and pants) when we are just at home but when going out, sometimes i still wear ordinary clothes but most of the time, he wants me to wear something girly (since I'm not that girl fashionista). Girly clothes like skirts, dresses, shorts, and he even wants me to wear an eyeliner o
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• China
26 Sep 12
I think you are right, boy should be interested to see the different side of his girlfriend. Maybe you can try :)
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Hey nancy, I am a guy and I can really relate that particular scenario with me. I really want my girl to dressed formally however, I do always look on some girls wearing short skirts and shorts. The thoughts that runs thru my mind would be that, I want for my girl to be decently presentable to the public and especially to those people I know. With regards to the looking on other girls, it is pretty normal for a guy to look at them for we have that nature to be attracted to such skin revealing scenes. Anyhow, I still do appreciate my girlfriend wearing sexy attires.
• Canada
25 Sep 12
I honestly think that both males and females look as it is in our nature. Nothing really to be alarmed about there. BUT as long as he isn't cheating or doing her wrong in any way all is good!
• Canada
25 Sep 12
I am with an amazing guy! I dress however I want to dress and he is always okay with it. I usually wear jeans and a hoodie so I'm in no way a gurly gurl. I do wear a bit of make up (eye liner and mascara) but I don't wear much more than that. Most guys look at other women because it is in everyone's nature, just like if a good looking guy walked by you would probably notice too! As long as he isn't cheating or doing you wrong in any way I don't think it is anything to be alarmed about as we all look at some point.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Have you ever tried wearing sexy dress? Maybe you can try to wear sexy dress and see what will your boyfriend's reaction. Maybe then, he will never look at other girls but keep his eyes on you.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
27 Sep 12
You should only do it if you feel comfortable to do so. If you feel that is not you, you cannot force and burden yourself. He should love you for who you are. Or maybe you can wear it when you are alone at home with him just to make him happy.