How to entertain children in holidays?

@GemmaR (8517)
September 25, 2012 1:31pm CST
As you all know, the economy isn't at its best and this means that not all that many people can afford to do the same types of things that they might have enjoyed to do in the past. I always liked to go to theme parks when I was a child, but the truth is that this is just something that I can't afford anymore, meaning that I am worried about children being bored during the holiday times. I know that I can go to the park, but the weather isn't always that nice, so I don't want the children to be bored when the weather is not good enough to go outside. Does anyone have some good ideas for cheap days out, or activities at home, for young children?
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@youless (112164)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 12
In fact as long as you bring your children have the outdoor activities and then eat in the fastfood restaurant, it is enough for them to be cheerful. Children are not greedy. They hope their parents will spend some time to stay and play with them.
@GemmaR (8517)
26 Sep 12
I don't really want to take them to places where they serve unhealthy foods, because I don't want to teach them that fast food is the best thing to be eating. I struggled with my weight for the whole of my childhood, and it is only now at the age of 22 that I am realising the things that I have to do in order to be healthy. I would not want the children to start having a weight problem because of the foods that I had been giving to them. I can certainly play with them though, as this is something that I enjoy doing just as much as they do.
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26 Sep 12
or maybe gemmar, you can practice your cooking ability and share with your kids.. the joy isn`t expensive if we know the method..
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@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
26 Sep 12
I have two very small children we play games, watch movies, sing, dance. We got to the libary. This year my oldest is going to be able to do pumpkin painting. You don't need to do much depending on the age of a child get together with friends and they can have play dates or even just hand out with family.
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@GemmaR (8517)
26 Sep 12
Going to the library might be a good idea, I hadn't thought of that. My local library runs competitions in holiday times for things like designing bookmarks and seeing how many books each of the children can read in a certain period of time. This would be a good way to keep them busy, and I certainly approve of helping them to read as this is something that is educational and would help them when they go back to school again. The youngest one is probably more interested in picture books but I don't see that it should be a problem really.
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@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
27 Sep 12
My kids are really little so there are lot of things they cant do but I come up with something especially during the winter when it's cold outside. The library is good place to go any time of the year as long as they are open. Our library does all kind of things even for adults. I can't wait for it to start snowing I'm going to take my oldest sliding. We are putting up in our new place a dry ereas board for our daughter to color on. She is 20 months old and our youngest is only a going on 5 weeks so it's very interseting to come up with things for there age. I could give my oldest a box and she would be happy. Treasure hunts are good to. You can make those educational or no educational
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
25 Sep 12
I am lucky that there are a lot of parks where I live, and it is not only little playground but they are creative too with some fun slide, water fountains, swings... where I live is trying to build parks every 1 mile make it family friendly. We don't have a lot of money to spend either so it is a great way to make the kids happy, it is free and fun! I think kids are just happy that the parents spend time with them so even with no parks, playing at the backyard would be fun like little ball games? hide and seek or something.
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@GemmaR (8517)
26 Sep 12
There is one park near where I live, but because it is the only park for miles around, it can get very busy during the holiday times when the weather is nice. Because of this, you find that the children have to wait for a long time to be able to use the piece of equipment that they want, and then they end up arguing because they are bored of waiting. I suppose the park would be a good idea if we went early enough to get there before all of the other families did. Our back yard is quite big so I suppose games like that would be quite possible!
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
In our part of the world, poverty is very common. But that does not stop us from enjoying the holidays. In fact, I guess we celebrate Christmas for a long time, starting really early and ending really late. What I notice here is that food is prepared (in some cases very simply) and shared by family during Christmas eve. And then, to entertain the kids, people play parlor games (now even most adults play these games). It's a simple way for us to have fun. What really makes this work for us is the fact that families - extended ones (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews and nieces) really come together and make big crowds. Also neighbors often celebrate holidays together.
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@GemmaR (8517)
26 Sep 12
Yes I think that Christmas is certainly something that I could think about. Perhaps I could say to the children that they could make place mats for the Christmas dinner table this year. One of them could make name tags and the other could make the mats. I guess the older one would have to write the names as the youngest cannot yet write. This should keep them busy for an afternoon, and then they could help to decide where each family member would be sitting for Christmas Day. It would also save me the job of buying place mats myself at a later date so this is a great thing as well.
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26 Sep 12
i think the vacation isn`t only going out to the outside.. you can make your home as the best place for suddenly vacation in sunday create the new things in your yard..
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@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
You're probably right when you say that the children will be able to have a good time in the yard. I suppose they don't live at my house, so even coming here is a little bit like a kind of vacation for them. I am thinking about buying some new games for the garden that they could play with. We have a trampoline and this is something that they like using but only one of them can use this at any one time so I need something for the other to do as well so that they don't feel left out when they are not the one playing on the trampoline.
@kemak28 (724)
• United States
25 Sep 12
How old are the kids?
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@GemmaR (8517)
26 Sep 12
There are two children, one is four and one is eight. That doesn't sound so bad in itself but the problem is that they both like very different things. The four year old loves to be outside and the eight year old would much prefer to be allowed to sit on his games console. If I wanted a quiet life I would let him do this and play with the little one outside, but I know that it is not too good for children to allow them to do this so I was hoping for something that would be fun, active and possibly a little bit educational all at the same time.
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@kemak28 (724)
• United States
26 Sep 12
I was going to suggest some fun craft and art projects but not sure if they would both like it. Do you use the site Pinterest? There are tons of ideas for fun activities you could find on there. I have seen so many fun craft things for kids to make on there.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
26 Sep 12
I used to have a lot of fun with my kids building forts out of the furniture and some blankets. We'd pretend we were camping and tell spooky stories. We also baked--I let them throw together all kinds of stuff and sometimes it was good and sometimes it was awful but it was always fun. We'd play with legos and blocks. We'd get out their toy cars and trucks and build roadways and make buildings out of cardboard. When the weather was nice--meaning below 90°!--we'd build roads and little cities outside. You can take your kids for walks, write a book together of stories you make up and they can illustrate it. There are a lot of things you can do that will keep them entertained. Learn to make your own play doh, the recipe is on the internet, and let your 8 year old make it or at least put in some food coloring. Teach them to cook and bake.
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
I remember when I was younger and I loved building dens and things like that. I certainly think that this might be something that they could do on one of the days, and I could get all of the cushions off the chairs and allow them to play with them. But this is something that I can't do all of the time because I don't like the house to be messed up in this way because of the fact that it takes so long to put the things back together again and I am too busy to be spending a lot of time tidying up when the children go home.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 12
hi Gemmar during the Holidays you own local libra y usually has free programs for kids activities such as handicraft making and other things that kids enjoy.and its all free of charge too.Also some show Christmas films for kida' and parents all free too.also reading hour for kids in the holidays is all fun for them as the children's librarians have special tricks to keep kids really entertained
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
I have a library a short walk away from my house, so I think that this is something that I would like to do. One of the things that the children like to do is listen to people read stories to them, and I know that the library near my house does story time every morning. The children would get to my house very early so they would like something to do in the morning so that they're not bored for the whole of the day. I suppose that this would be educational as well so this would be a good thing to do while I am looking after them.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
26 Sep 12
Why not have the children research an old fashioned holiday. They can use the Internet. Most things were made by hand and from scratch. Even songs to be song or a play to put on just for the family. Most of this can be inexpensive and it will give them insight into days gone by.
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
That sounds as though it could be fun. I could cook a meal for them on an outdoors fire as I have the ability to do this in the garden. They like being able to do this as it is something that we do in the summer occasionally. I could allow them to help me to make a meal and I think this would help them to learn to cook and also learn how to help out around the house. This is something that their Mum would appreciate because it would almost certainly be a good thing to be thinking about getting them to help out a bit more at home.
• United States
25 Sep 12
One of the things that my kids always loved to do when we were broke around the holidays was make their own Christmas wrapping paper. I would give them paper bags from the grocery store with the bottom cut out and a cut down the side making it a big paper for them to decorate any way that they choose. We would then use the paper that they made to wrap our presents. I have also had my kids make each other presents. My daughter learned how to crochet one year and made scarfs for every one in the family. My son made every one a cute little knick knack shelf out of the cardboard bottle dividers that come in cases of sauces like tabasco. He took them apart and used contact paper to cover the pieces then he put them back together and there you have it a nice little knick knack display. I know that there are tons of craft ideas online if your willing to look them up. I have come across some things that are pretty cool and all that it takes is a printer and printer ink. You print out the pieces and then you cut them out and put them together like a puzzle but they are 3D like cars and boats and cows and such. One time we had an entire farm put together and it was all made of paper all the animals the trees the houses the barns and the farm cars as well. Was pretty cool. I think I got them from the crayola web page. Give them a look you will find many things to do that will keep every one busy for hours if not days.
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@GemmaR (8517)
25 Sep 12
This sounds like a really good idea, particularly with it being September already so by the time the October half term comes around it will be time to think about things like Christmas wrapping paper anyway. We already have lots of pencils, pens and crayons so we would be able to use those. I also keep all of my old Christmas cards so I would be able to make gift tags out of those. That sound keep them occupied for at least one afternoon, it really is the perfect thing to do if they're lost for something to do when the weather is bad. Thank you for your help!
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@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Well maybe exchange gifts will do or hire a clown to entertain them I'm sure they are going to love it. Or if you want you can go buy balloons or maybe rent a pool and have a swimming party for the kids. goodluck GemmaR
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
Once when I was younger, my Mum's friend ran a club for all of the local children and organised a party every week on a park near my house. Sometimes they would hire a bouncy castle for the afternoon and everyone would be able to come and play on it, and at other times she would organise sports games which were great for everyone to get involved in. She charged £1 a week for each of the children and this covered her costs, so I do think that this could be something that I could try to organise for the children around our local area.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
25 Sep 12
Well i can understand your situation very well. I think during the holidays it is very important to keep children busy and engaged so that they do not get bored and feel left out and lonely. with the aforesaid conditions as u have clearly stated, i can suggest u to plan out small engaging activities at home so that u can also participate with them. Things could be like painting, playing cards, watching movies together, playing fun games, etc that will always be entertaining for them and help them spend their time during the holidays. What say?
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@GemmaR (8517)
25 Sep 12
I hate it when they end up feeling bored, because it makes me feel guilty. They're not even my kids, they're my nephews who I have to look after because my brother works full time and I work from home so it makes sense for them to come to me rather than him pay somebody for childcare. Cards sounds good, they're old enough to understand the rules of some simple games, and young enough to enjoy playing them, so that really does sound as though it might be good for them. I might buy some board games as well to see if I can get them working together as a team.
• China
29 Sep 12
If you have enough time in holidays,I think you could spend more time with your children.Children are always want to stay with their parents.And you can do something meaningful with your children.For example,you can teach them to do some handiwork.In addition,you also could drive them to the bookstore to build up their interests of reading.That is really a good habbit.
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
They are not my children and sadly their Mum can't get the time off work this holiday to be able to spend a lot of time with them, but she is normally able to do so, so they do get to see her a lot of the time. A bookstore sounds like a good idea; I could buy them each a new book to read while they are at my house and hopefully this will mean that they will be quiet for a while so that I am able to get some of my work done around the house. I am looking forward to it, it will be fun as long as they're not too bored.