Wise relationship

wonderfully said,i agree with you entirely.its better to be alone than in bad company and rot ourself.alone may kill but one can master it with self but not the surroundings

I have been in the situation that I have been in a houseful of people but yet still very lonely because I was in the wrong relationship. I think if you are in the wrong relationship it is important to work on ways to leave it or the relationship will bring you much more sadness than what being alone would. The feeling of being stuck is never good for anyone.

Choose your relationship wisely is very good words to live by. A lot of people that are unaware of how to choose a relationship go by what their emotions are feeling and that is not always a good thing. Many of the choices made by emotion is more of a place of feeling not whole and thinking you can only be made whole by this other person. If this is the case you must look at your family of origin and then you will understand the dynamics of your relationship which will be similar to what you learned growing up in your family. Choosing wisely takes a big effort on your part because you have to heal yourself and become whole within you. Then it is easy to choose someone who is also whole and challenges you as a person. From the point of wholeness you will easily recognize red flags in others that tell you this isn't the right person for you. Also you will know you need to go slow and get to know the other person before committing to a relationship with them.