Good Babysitter, but Not Good as Mother
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
Indonesia
October 1, 2012 3:20am CST
Wife of my uncle ( so I call her "aunty" ) is mother of two kids, 3,5 years old girl and 1,8 years old boy. both of her kids is very naughty children. they always make trouble in any place and in any situation. they always make trouble for the thing they touch and they can't stand to not touch anything around them. they can cry all day long without any reason and shout out loud until your ear become so tired. they successfully made me got headache when they stay at my home for days
. their mother sometimes just doing nothing when her two kids disturbing or doing their naughty action. when she tired, sometimes she shout out loud and hit her kids and call them loud "hey, stupid..bla...bla...bla...". What a shame!
recently I just know that aunty was a babysitter when she was young. she has been experience full as babysitter for several years and known as good babysitter. I'm really surprising that good babysitter is not good mother for their children. She looks so mess handle her two naughty kids and doesn't know how to educate her kids..
. their mother sometimes just doing nothing when her two kids disturbing or doing their naughty action. when she tired, sometimes she shout out loud and hit her kids and call them loud "hey, stupid..bla...bla...bla...". What a shame!
recently I just know that aunty was a babysitter when she was young. she has been experience full as babysitter for several years and known as good babysitter. I'm really surprising that good babysitter is not good mother for their children. She looks so mess handle her two naughty kids and doesn't know how to educate her kids..2 responses
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
1 Oct 12
hi, the mother was once a babysitter , and good at work too, this may be because ,she was young then and have all the energy required o control the kids, and also get money lol, now she may be tired and also not so very much interested in raising her own kids, or may be they are soo naughty that she is tired of saying them, don't worry the kids will learn slowly. some children who are utmost naughty in their childhood becomes very calm and sober once they grow up, but now if the parents try to stop them, they may become aggressive kids and more naughty , may be the mother knows this .
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 12
sorry for mistype, prashu..
my aunty is still young, but it's enough age for woman with two kids. I do hope the kids could be more calm because they are categorized "too" naughty for the kids on that age. so, do you think if the parent should not try to stop them?? what they should do?
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
3 Oct 12
oh, so sorry, but we cant punish the children, at that age,they become more and more naughty, mother have to find some tricks for them , to control, as she is the only one who know them well.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
Being a mother to toddlers can be really tiring. I guess, we couldn't blame your aunt if she would sometimes be shouting that way. A mother is a 24/7 job and sometimes even if we do not want to get mad, it just shows up coz of how tired we can be.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 12
may be, I'm not experience to be mother yet, so I don't know how tiring it is. I just don't like the way she shout out to her kids with rude words that hear by everyone. at least she could take her kids off than shouting in rude words...
