Someone just annoyed me today im ready to kick her face!
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
October 1, 2012 4:48am CST
I am so annoyed right now I just need to vent out! We have a competition here in the office for basketball and volleyball. So our team has have a lot of practices already in the past and there was this member who is part of the team. Well i have attended most of the practices before and she wasn't there.
I was not able to attend the practice last Friday because it was such a short notice and here came this morning this team member who was referring to me and told me to attend the practices because she has not seen me attend it! The NERVE!! I am sooooo pissed off i want to slap her in the face! She only attended last Friday's practice and what, she's all over me saying her hand felt numb because there were only 7 of them who practiced and they had to get all the ball! duh. I'd be willing to make her whole body numb if i could just kick her all over!! She's really so annoying! I hate her!
I just smiled though i told her I attended practices before and she was the one who wasn't there and i raised my voice saying the practice last Friday was a short notice i think no one would have really confirmed or change plans right away for a stupid practice!
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9 responses
@riyauro (6421)
• India
1 Oct 12
Oh that is some crazy women you dealing with 
.. i would say don't break your head on her and ignore her because some people don't change, they think that they the ones who are right always. Yes you have better things to do then to waste your energy on her. Just ignore. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
.. i would say don't break your head on her and ignore her because some people don't change, they think that they the ones who are right always. Yes you have better things to do then to waste your energy on her. Just ignore. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 2 people like this
@resy21curapika (2151)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Oct 12
Wow, talking about sudden change of plans. LOL.
Team work is indeed truly important. Well, I can't blame you for being mad about it since you were preparing for it the whole time. Better let her know the meaning of what you guys are doing lately so she will completely understand why you're annoyed about her actions.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about it here in mylot and hope to hear developments about you guys.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
thank you resy. it was really uncalled for. she came to our office and told me why i haven't been attending practices! my God that was really something eh, as she was not there. I did not even know she is a team member as i haven't seen HER in all of the practices i attended for 2 months every week! she WAS NOT there and now it was me who was supposedly not a team player?! such people are really annoying! she feels important, is that it?!!
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
2 Oct 12
Wow I would have wanted to slap her as well. I wouldnt have been as sweet to her about it as you were. I would have told her off for sure lol. I certainly do hope that her hand hurts serves her right for not being there for the other practices. I am sure anyone that has been around to the other practices and heard her say this would think low of her.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
hi shaggy, i just controlled myself not to say something to her.. but boy was i really annoyed i could just kick her even. haha i saw her yesterday at our game and she was no good and as expected she feels she is really good at the game so she kept on talking how her arms swell and had bruises! duh there were no bruises! come on!!!
@missjahn (4572)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
no, do not do that or else, someone would give the negative rating and maybe that girl would do that to you 
. well, karma is there. we should not opt ourselves to do the revenge. smiling right to her face would be an insult manner showing as if she is not there and do not really exist. whehehe...
. well, karma is there. we should not opt ourselves to do the revenge. smiling right to her face would be an insult manner showing as if she is not there and do not really exist. whehehe...1 person likes this
@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
1 Oct 12
Hi Chiyosan! I can sympathize with what you are feeling. It's hard when you have done almost perfect and miss out just one time and suddenly someone who has only been right once would make you feel like you are the lazy one. Anyway what I would advise is for you to keep your cool. You know deep inside that you are not at wrong.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
hahah, i do not intend to make any scene... of course. :D but it sure was a good thing i vented out on here. i just remember i still am pissed off at this person because i saw her in the game yesterday. we did won the game but... well every time i see her play, i thought ha! what a mediocre player! :P grrrrr
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
1 Oct 12
Well, there are really are those people who get into our nerves once in a while just so they can make themselves look good and all. I totally understand how you feel, but you did the right thing by not giving in to your feelings of disgust over that person, you handled it pretty well. There's nothing better to deal them than just being calm and letting them know you're not in the least affected by whatever they're driving at.
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@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
Hello chiyosan, I understand the feeling, maybe she was absent minded when she said that. Or she thought she could get away and let you feel guilty of it not joining the practice. Don't worry it's just one of those days and doesn't have to be too serious since you got better things to do than focus on that.
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@natliegleb (5173)
• India
2 Oct 12
you can do that whole heartedly but ready to face the consequences also,some person are quite rash at times ,try to advice them first or else take the impact action
@missjahn (4572)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
chillax! just think that those people who are fault-finders are the people who are fault-makers. do not pay much attention to that colleague of yours instead smile at her meaningfully so that she will be ashamed of what she had done to you and then rise your one eyebrow as you stare at her questioningly. whaha... sorry for my words like this. i did meant to be able to act so mean. well, just relax and ignore her. continue doing what you think is right. smile :)
i did meant to be able to act so mean. well, just relax and ignore her. continue doing what you think is right. smile :)