Could you please tell me how to find a good wife?

Egypt
October 2, 2012 7:13am CST
I lived a lone for a long time.now,I need my second part.that part will complete me.I need a good wife but I cant find her.I look to this woman and this but I find a problem in each one.you can imagine that when I find a suitable one,I found her engaged and sometimes married.what can I do?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Oct 12
Bad luck here... hmmm, you should kind of stop finding the faults to start with and hopefully wait for the right moment when the right one shows up
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I agree
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Hi ms, hatley and that's what I called the right love and the right one. Thesid, at first maybe he knew they were singles unfortunately they are not.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Oct 12
Hey, I also read this on the discussion - when I find a suitable one,I found her engaged and sometimes married. For your good, please stop eyeing others' wives
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• Philippines
2 Oct 12
hi csy, Well maybe it's not about time for you Love comes in unexpected moments of our life happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
whooaaa...speaking from your own experience?
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• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I don't have experience yet
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
okay..how about experiences
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
The right girl will come to you in a right time and I just hope you have to time to wait for her I still believe in destiny.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
define destiny with letter L
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
F ?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Oct 12
What about F
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@GemmaR (8517)
2 Oct 12
If you are spending your days trying to find a wife, then you are never going to be able to find one. You need to stop thinking about meeting people with the view of getting married to them, and start thinking how you can start to get to know people as friends. These are the types of people who you could get to know gradually and then your friendship might start to build into something else. But you need to stop getting brought down by the fact that you don't yet have a wife or it may start to be something that will never happen.
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@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Finding a good wife isn't that difficult. Finding a perfect wife is. Personally, I'd rather have a not-so-perfect wife. This adds a bit of spice in a relationship. Being perfect may lead to eventual monotony . Just stay visible and connected with your friends. Eventually you'll meet your suitable wife-to-be.
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• United States
2 Oct 12
It is very best to be very selective in picking a wife. Don't settle for a wife that is not what you truely need. Sometimes you need to date many over long time to find the right one but it will be worth it. Date girls with common interest as you so there is more of a chance of you both feeling the same way on topics.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
As the saying goes Try and try until you succeed.. Since you are looking for a good wife then I want to modify the saying Search and search until you Find.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
I'm really not sure how you will be able to find a wife. Depends on where you are and how you mingle with people. They said the more you go out of your house and meet friends, the more chances of finding a person you would spend the rest of your life with. I hope that time would come to you soon.
• Malaysia
3 Oct 12
Hi Csyluckdays, i have few suggestion that you may like to use and you have to have a list of your dream wife then its easy for you to shortlist. Start with the faith or religion cause it is the most difficult issue to settle once you are married, then her age,height, skin colour, her hair length that is her biology then you list out her nature whether she loves sports and what kind of sports, she has some sense of humour or not, do you want her to be good at cooking? Do you want her to hold a good job or you can afford to support her? From your reasons i guess you are attracted to experienced woman so have you tried the divorcees or the Online dating site?
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
3 Oct 12
Patience my friend, it is going to take a lot of patience. Real love is not something that can be forced, or rushed. You are just going to have to live your life and wish, hope and pray for the right woman, but you are going to have to be patient about it. You are going to have to wait.
@rubyroy (824)
• India
3 Oct 12
Pray to your maker to give you a wife that will give happiness and peace.If there is happiness and peace you can get the rest without much struggle.Find a wife who has inner strength,so that she will be able to stand by your side in the event of tough times.Be a good husband and do not expect too much,then you will find a suitable wife to live with.
3 Oct 12
i think the most important things is you must seacrh girl who understand you when you down and sad... and also you feel happy when you together with your girl...thats my opinion
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Heyya :) what do you mean,you look to a woman but you find a problem in each one? Are you that perfectionist? Correct me if I'm wrong but i haven't met any person whose already perfect. I think everyone has her own weakness or lacking in something but if you are willing to help her out, help her improve on that part then later on she can be perfect in your eyes :P I remember a saying - "no girl is perfect but she is perfect in the eyes of the right man for him" why don't you give it a try.. if you meet a girl and eventually like her, even if you find a little problem about her, try to like her still if it won't be a big deal in the relationship. :) well just piece of advice though i am not married yet ^^
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@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Hello, I think the best way for you to find the right girl is to find time to mingle with a lot of people. Go out and explore the world my friend.You should not be too choosy also and do not set a standards to find the right girl. Make it as a hobby to go out with your circle of friends.In that process, you may not know you are falling in love with someone unconsciously.Do not be too snobbish also most especially to the ladies and women out there.hehe
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Oct 12
Csyluckdays you sound like someone shopping in a supermarket for good wife. for one thing first be sure you a e going to be a good husband., now just mingle with people and sooner or later you will meet a girl that will knock your socks off as she 'is just exactly what you want.don't treat looking for a wife like looking for a ripe melon,woman are humans not an item you can buy treat all women with respect always.mingle with friends, go to church, anyplace where there are young people your age, make friends and flirt but treatall with respect,
• United States
3 Oct 12
True love cant be found unless you learn to love unconditionally. You will search the world three times over, and I guarantee that you will not find a flawless woman. The key to building a relationship founded in true love is to learn to love one anothers weaknesses and faults, and learning how to deal with them. This is important because if you cant love someone for who they truly are flawed or not, then how can you expect someone else to love you for who you are? The next woman you find may actually be the one. Just challenge yourself to be patient with her through good and bad times. Even if you end up not falling in love, you will make a great friend!