Ideal Soulmate Missed Forever

@rs1982 (99)
United States
October 4, 2012 4:11pm CST
Sometimes, you meet the right person but as fate has it, not always does it end in happily forever after. When you breeze through a year together without a fight, you know its working..in fact that its working really great. How good can that be? They met online, after a few months, they met in person and it clicked from the instant their conversation began. She was talkative and he was a great listener. He took time to open up but was a person with the best attitude. He was friendly but cautious, took time to know people and then make friends. Yet, with her, he was comfortable from the instant they chatted and the moment they met. In fact, he was in love without even seeing her. There was some bonding he felt and he was disturbed about it. He had been through a few bad relationships earlier and didn't know if it would work this time. Yet, he had enough positive attitude to give another chance to love. She on the other hand, was someone who could begin a conversation without hesitation. She spoke her mind and didn't fear expressing herself. Yet, they both had a lot in common. They liked similar music, had same ideas in life, felt the same about relationships..and lot more. Long drives, food, books..they began to see that they were almost a reflection of each other! Well, it was almost like a Cinderella story for her. She felt most comfortable with him. In fact, she never realized when the liking turned to love. She didn't know how to tell him. But she knew too that he felt the same for her. Interestingly, they didn't need a formal proposal..one fine day, they just saw each other and understood..that they each felt the same. It is something you cannot express in words. Of course, he had, in many indirect words, tell her that he loved her. On the chat..it would be a naughty romantic message..but she never took it seriously until one fine day. After that, they were inseparable. They spoke for hours, he gave up his sleep to just speak to her at night; he woke up early to meet her at the subway to walk her to college. She never told him but she loved every bit of that attention. She loved to fake anger when he was late..but when she was late..she made a small face to say sorry and his heart melted away. Not once..in the whole year did he raise his voice or reprimand.. He never had any expectations. The only thing he wanted..was her..for a life time. They are not together any more but they are still in touch. They parted ways due to unfortunate circumstances but he always cherished the times spent together. She did so too but she was scared that he might have been angry. Hence, it took her a lot of time to get back to reality and contact him.. By then..it was too late. He did wait for her..truly and sincerely. For over 6 years..I guess very very rarely you find such a great person..When you do..don't ever let go..don't listen to anyone, just do what in your heart feels right.
2 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
You got me teary-eyed with what you posted. Something almost similar to that happened to me years back. I thought he was my soul mate. We never had a fight. We spent each day cherishing our love for the next two years. Unfortunately, we had to end the relationship for some personal reasons. I still remember him every now and then. Still lot of questions in my mind. Useless to be holding back, but I felt it was the greatest love I've ever had.
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
5 Oct 12
Thanks Jenny1015, It is a true story..and it is sad that they can't be together..I myself was in tears after submitting this post. Isn't it sad to end the relationship that is so good to be true?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
Yes, it is heart-breaking. But what can we do? we just need to let go, move on and start anew.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Oct 12
He never gave any reprimand? Who is he to reprimand her? She was not an adult? She was making a small face? So she was abusing his feelings for her? I think there was a very good reason why this relationship ended. BTW fairy tales also don't have all a happy ending. Fairy tales were invented to tell a lesson. I wonder if you learned a lesson out of this "story".
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
5 Oct 12
Well, usually in a relationship, there is anger and argument. At times, he screams or she yells. Here, there was nothing of that sort. She wasn't abusing his feelings. She just was playful and he knew that. It could have been a happy ending but for some people who didn't let that happen.. Now, she misses him a lot more. I guess one had to be there..to see them together..