What Happens in Love? What happens after a gap?

@rs1982 (99)
United States
October 5, 2012 1:40pm CST
Had to part due to in-explained circumstances. Yet, after a long gap, back in touch, thanks to social media! It does feel good to talk and discuss how we still have a soft corner for each other. Yes, there is a feeling of emptiness because now it is too late to get back together. Yet, we are a team. Well, we are continents apart yet there is a feeling of closeness. We know that we can talk about anything and be there virtually..for each other. It is a feeling that does not have words to explain. Just yesterday, he stepped into his office chamber and I had already sent in a good morning and missing you message. He replied, "dear, I just stepped in and am 2 mins late to work!" He was not too busy as it was Friday in his continent..We chatted for a while and later he asked me if he could go and grab some lunch! Post lunch, I sent IMs but got no reply. I was really worried. One of my friends said he had some sad message status on his id. I sent a few more messages asking what happened, why was he upset. Later, I felt that he may not be feeling too well and might have gone home. In few hours, he replies me saying he was feeling dizzy and hence had gone home! Wow, I am surprised how telepathy works! Did you ever go through such a roller coaster? How did it happen and how did you handle it?
4 responses
• United States
8 Oct 12
I'm going through this same type of rollercoaster now. In May, my boyfriend left for the army. For 10 weeks all we could do was write letters to each other. I got to see him after 10 weeks and I watched him graduate from basic training. I had to leave him again so he could go through 2 more months of schooling for the army. During that time he could use his cell phone and he'd text and call me everyday. This past week he was home for a visit and we spent so much time together and had a lot of fun. But yesterday, he had to leave because he's getting sent to Korea for a year. He won't be using his cell phone so we'll have to use computers to keep in touch. It's sad for both of us but we know that after the army, we'll be together and get married. When things get hard for me, I just think about the future and that in 6 months when he visits me again, he'll be proposing and we'll be engaged. I just try my best to stay strong and look forward to things.
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
8 Oct 12
Yes, I just read your post too..however, so long as you are there for each other, distance doesn't matter a lot. Look forward to the happy future and it will keep you going strong!
• United States
8 Oct 12
Most of the time I can forget the distance because when we talk to each other it's like nothing has changed at all between us. The only thing the distance does to us is separate us physically. But mentally, we're still together and nothing has changed between us. If anything, our love has grown stronger during our times apart. I'm definitely keeping our future in mind and looking forward to the days when I can wake up everyday and see him.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Oct 12
Well glad to hear that everything is back on track in your love life and great that all the differences and misunderstandings have now gone from both your lives. Well this does happen in everyone's love life and during such testing times, it is very important for both the partners to hang on to each other and have trust and faith on each other so that the relationship can be brought to the same track as it was before. What say?
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
5 Oct 12
Well, it is the best feeling to have him back in life. Yet, we are not together. Well, we can't be together..too late for it. Yet, we chat everyday. We talk what happened, discuss how to tackle issues..mostly I complain and he lends a patient ear and a support mechanism! Somehow, it is beyond words to express this relationship.. there was never an argument or a misunderstanding..it was just fate, that parted us..
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
6 Oct 12
after a gap we find boredom and the strong love flavor would be last,we wont be able to feel happily.so never take a break,always stay united
@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
I've been in a similar situation before. ^_^ I just try not to over think things and try to stay positive too. That way I don't get stressed out especially when it turns out there's no reason to be stressed anyway. ;) I hope your friend is feeling A-okay now! :D