Moving on

Philippines
October 7, 2012 7:43am CST
In mending a broken heart, what are the do's and dont's? Steps in moving on? And when is the perfect time to enter a new relationship? This are some of the questions of people who are recently come from a painful break up. And i think for the last question when is the right time? The right time will be answered by yourself. Time will heal your broken heart and time will tell that you ready.
5 responses
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Moving on.. three years ago i entered into a relationship. This was the first time i fall inlove. falling inlove is a marvelous feeling. Everyday is like dancing in the rain, singing through the clouds and feeling heaven all day. BUt when the time came we had to go separate ways, that was the most painful moment i have encountered. it felt like i was broken into pieces and really felt shattered. For years I was holding into an idea that we will be back in each others arms but it never did. So i had to let go. It wasnt easy, it was hard. It took me a year to finally recover form the pain ive got. What i mean is moving on takes time, you should not rush, cry, be sad,that's fine. its a normal reaction. and entering into a new relationship right away is never a solution. time will come and it will mend your broken heart. You have to take it slowly so that when you will enter a relationship again. there will be no regrest and no doubts because ytou already know that you are ready for it:)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
Being ready to commit a relationship will takes time. Forcing your heart to love again may result a fake love or a love that wont last.
@jenny81 (36)
• United States
21 Apr 13
Time heals the pain. As time past, our pin will be slowly healed and relieved. Moving on is the best. Not to trap by the past but to move on. Face our present and create a better future.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 12
Don't be a fool to take a long time to nurse a broken heart. One should bounce back immediately and find someone else to mend the broken heart. It might be easier said than done but you must remember that the ladies need to kiss many toads before they meet their prince charming.
@GemmaR (8517)
8 Oct 12
It can be difficult to move on from somebody who you have loved, because you will most likely have a lot of questions that you would like to be answered, and nobody who is able to answer them. The best thing that you can do is to try to forget about it because you can't get them back so there isn't a point in revisiting old issues. Then you should try to keep yourself busy with other things, for example by going out with your friends or catching up with a family member who you haven't seen for a long time. This would help you to try to move on with your life and be a little bit happier about everything.
9 Oct 12
Whew! Moving on is the most hard to do.. but, don't worry... Time heals everything.. and everything that's been happening in your life has its purpose. God Has a plan for us... Maybe He's just giving you a lesson why the two of you broke up.. right? So, learn your lesson. Ive already learned mine. So, I know you can do it. And about your question when is really the exact time.. is the time where you are no longer in pain and when you think of him, its like he's less important... and you will feel happy and someday when you found someone, you would feel the feeling of spark... its like you're in heaven.. :)