Don't get me wrong
By bluespygirl
@bluespygirl (2112)
Philippines
October 9, 2012 5:18am CST
I made this topic because many are getting me wrong to what I had replied in a certain topic here.
Please do't get me wrong. What I write here is what I thought and my observations only. I am not generalizing what I say here. I don't want to have people any bad impression on me on what I see things that why I am making his topic. I mean no harm to anybody
I hope everything is clear now. Again, please don't get me wrong
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5 responses
@Life11211 (452)
• India
18 Nov 12
Its really good thing that you care a lot for all those around you.(thumbup)
One thing which i want to add here is "People any way have opinion about you"
Its practical impossible to please every one around.
When you hold yourself back, you can't do justice to your responses.
One should be polite in the interaction and at the same time have full right to express the way he/she want to.
After reading your discussion, i don't thing you did any thing intentionally, its just happened, and purpose was not to hurt any one, feel rest assured, and enjoy the mylotting process.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment life11211. :) I agree in what you had said that people have opinion about us. We really can't please everybody. I was just hurt the minute I had red that because that was the first time tht I had experienced someone not saying good about me here.
Thanks again and I hope you will enjoy it here.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Oct 12
I'm not at all sure what topic that you are talking about. However, I do find that there are times that discussions seem to be placed in interests that have nothing at all to do with the discussion that is at hand.
I don't judge people for it though because I know that sometimes we are really not able to find the correct interest that a discussion should be placed in. I just figure, "Oh well!"
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
I should have copied and paste the topic that I had replied. :)
Anyway, it is not out topic but the two respondents reacted that I shouldn't generalizing things. The topic is about what do I think about single ladies? The discussion topic require our opinions, right? And that is what I answered and all our replies here are based on our opinion. I was just so hurt that time when they reacted not good. But I am okay now. Thanks to you all who replied. :)
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
Although I don't exactly know that certain topic you're referring to, I think it's but normal to be misunderstood. I myself had been in somewhat similar situations. Sometimes I just wish people would realize that our comments are usually opinions and observations. And sometimes words are not enough to express our thoughts, which usually makes it vulnerable to misinterpretation.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
The topic is about how do I see single women. Yeah, I wish that some people will see that what we say is our opinion. It is my first time to be criticized here and I am just saddened.
Thanks for dropping by.
@rog0322 (2828)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Oct 12
Hi,
We should be ready for all kind of comment when we start a topic. That is the essence of freedom of expression, some you may not like their views being not line with yours or contrary to your convictions, still we thank those who criticize our position up to point of being misunderstood short of being riddled with bullets from an automatic weapon.
For that is the very essence of being free to express oneself, even if it hurts. For me, it hurts more being ignored than being criticized. At least, I know I am making a ripple out of the oceans of discussion being started.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
Thanks for your response rog0322! I really appreciate it. I like the thing that you said that it hurts to be ignored. Yeah, I think we shoud be ready for criticisms.
By the way, why there is 0322 in your username? Are you born on 22nd of March?
