Can we tame a two timer love?

@bembzee (768)
Philippines
October 12, 2012 11:55pm CST
Men they said are polygamous by nature. They are always an easy bait for temptation. They can be crazy falling for you but cannot resist the temptation for a short timed affair. What if we are helplessly falling in love with that type of guy. Can we do something to stop it? Can we just forget love and get over it? Or can we tame a two timer lover and pursue the feelings we had for him? Is it possible to tame their heart?
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@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
I believe that for every guy who is like this, there is a girl who can tame his heart. It may take a while for him to meet her and finally decide to settle down, but there will be that person he wouldn't want to let go or endanger his relationship with. :) It is going to be hard for the girl if she isn't the one yet, but sometimes we have to understand that we just can't make people who don't love us back love us, no matter what we do.
• United States
13 Oct 12
I agree with you , everyone is kinda like that until they meet the right person . Only the person you love can tame you .
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@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
It's not that everyone has several loves at the same time, but some people really don't settle unless he/she meets the right one. ;)
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Hello ajlasent and silverfox, you both sound romantic. But then you have a point. Only true love can tame one's heart. And i think no one can argue to that.
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I guess it's really possible. Because if we are really in love. We disregard all the things that they done wrong. Because we think that our love for that person is more important than other things. Even if it's wrong. :)
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Exactly, we tend to change and prove our sincerity to someone we love. Our awareness of losing their trust and confidence makes us change our views and attitude to life and around us. It makes us more sensitive in our environment and our families.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Oct 12
If you are aware that the person is a two timer and still want to be with them just settle for your position . That person will only change when they fall in love , and even if you love him he might not love you so you will never be able to tame him . He will be tamed when he find the right girl and only then ... If you cant change your feeling and dont mind sharing go ahead and try
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
You are right, he will only be tamed by a love. It is a typical bad boy who change for the sake of love. Yet it still best describe what a love can do to a certain individual, change.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
Yeah, it's definitely possible, my wife tamed me, LOL! Honestly, it takes a real good lesson for a two-timer to change his ways, and no doubt "karma" would surely haunt him down as is it did to me, lol! But seriously sooner or later, he would realize and more or less be truly be fair in his heart.
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
It is a good thing knowing that a two timer heart can be tamed. And much a relief because it was based on your personal experience, LOL.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Oct 12
Hi, Just give him the best of your love and he shall have second thoughts on two-timing on you. Most cases of two-timers report of a less than satisfactory affair and when the grass go dry, it is time to look at the next field, greener pastures, they say.
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
Too bad, that was a very hurtful feeling being betrayed. But i guess if you love someone you don't give him a reason to see somebody else but you.
@odiya86 (13)
13 Oct 12
you just have to do the needful and proof to him that you are the best woman, there is no way he can leave you when you have given him all your love.
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
That would be very hard for someone who always finds way to cheat,huh? I just hope he will see indeed the effort's the women are showing and giving them.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
13 Oct 12
I have never heard been in a situation like this but if I come to know that he is two timing with me, I would just call it off. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
A wise decision always expected for a righteous woman. Two timing someone is a harsh attitude. I guess we cannot fully trust them. So why commit into someone their kind, huh? Might as well find someone worth loving for and enjoy the true meaning of love.