Am I in a small group?

China
October 14, 2012 8:49pm CST
I have a question as before, at the beginer in my mylot, I concerned about response in my discussion, I got few reply in my topic, even my discussion good or not? I wrote a discussion about this especially. At first, I got the reply there is few interestings in my hobby, so I put my hobbies coulorful. But now I am in the same situation. Why?
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9 responses
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Oct 12
Hi Beryl! Welcome to myLot! I know you will be able to learn things little by little. I have visited your profile and one of the things that I noticed is that you have a limited number of friends. Make friends with everybody so you they will be notified if you started a new discussion (sadly, this feature is not active as of the moment for some reasons but I'm sure it will be addressed by the admin in the days to come.) Secondly, try to create posts that will surely attract more attention. Be creative, simple, concise yet comprehensive when starting a discussion. Make sure that when they read you post, they could understand what you mean. Avoid writing when you are angry. Sometimes, we can say something not so good when we write during this time. I hope I was able to help you with this matter. You can always ask for help if necessary. We are always here to help you. That is what myLot is all about. Have a nice day!
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• China
16 Oct 12
Thanks for your advise. I will try my best and keep writing on mylot. BTW, I want to say when I am in a mood, I would like to write down something in mylot, especially when I am angry and sad. I have a way to relief my pain and lessen my hurt, that is writing. I like to writing everything when I am in a bad mood, Never had a way like that, and I also think that's the best way for me after tested many kinds of. However, happy to be friend with you. I also hope I can add you in my skype. Can I?
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Oct 12
Hi, Some discussions get a big following, some don't. It all depends upon the way you frame it, and the category where you post it. There are many people here but if you don't post the right topic in the right place, then you feel as if no one is around. Make a bigger splash to be noticed but don't violate the ground rules as well.
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• China
16 Oct 12
You are right, but I guess I posted a right way for my discussion. Maybe can use that word==bad luck. BTW, I have at least three discussions be removed because of violate the ground rules. What a pity.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Oct 12
It's normal to a newbie to have a less follower on your discussions. Some also found out that they had responded almost similar post few days or months ago. Even those who are old members here still can't assume to have more response on their discussions. The main thing you can do is post a discussion which is related to your interest. Be sure you have more ideas to tell to other members who responded your post. Just go on anywhere on the site. Don't be disappointed. Your earnings depend on your activities not from the post you got from other members.
• China
16 Oct 12
Yes, there are good ways that more spicy-up, related to my interests, more ideas in my discussion and searching my friend in anywhere. I will try these.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
I believe being new to something makes us feel alone and with no or with less friends. I'm sure in time you will be able to get more responses from your discussions. Try to add more friends, don't hesitate to add us all if you want. And there is nothing wrong with the way you put your discussion, we all went there and we have all improved with time. Patience and soon you will gain all those.
• China
16 Oct 12
I never think that I am wrong and the key thing is do not hesitate to make friends with others. Thanks for your advice.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Oct 12
You should make lots of friends send the friend request and add a friend. When I was new I also got less response only 3, 5 10 etc. but now gets more than 20. Dont worry start interesting discussions you will also get more response.
• China
19 Oct 12
Thanks very much.
• Greece
15 Oct 12
I've been on Mylot since September and I have watched my earnings gradually grow. So be patient, it takes time. I've noticed that lots of people write for the 'life' section, I suggest that you go there and read some of the topics where there are lots of responses. It will give you an idea of the kind of things that Mylotters like to discuss. Also familiarise yourself with all the little boxes on your page, they help you to make the best of the site. Mylot is well organised and will work for you. Every success.
• Greece
15 Oct 12
P.S I have put in some tags for you. If you do this whenever you write then the Search Engines will direct traffic.
• China
16 Oct 12
Haha, life is really a best topic. I will do as you said, thanks for your suggestion. Appriciated.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Oct 12
hi beryl-- when I first started I made a similar discussion too I was feeling so low as I only had one or two responses. A lady mylotter told me that I was the new kid on the block so I needed to get my user name known by responding to a lot of others discussions so they would say oh my beryl really responds to me so I am going to find her discussions and respond to her.and the more you respond to others the more apt you are to begin to get lots of responses.also make friends as that really helps you to get more responses too.I get lots of responses now and you will too.
• China
16 Oct 12
Appreciated for your suggestion. I will do it.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Oct 12
You should make lots of friends send the friend request and add a friend. When I was new I also got less response only 3, 5 10 etc. but now gets more than 20. Dont worry start interesting discussions you will also get more response.
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Probably, you need to spice-up your contents here in this discussion site. You can either participate also to get noticed with some users here. Or either adding friends also can get your discussion be noticeable here. You need also to give out a discussion which is timely and post it in an interests which really suits the discussion you are posting. Have a great day! Welcome to myLot! :)
• China
16 Oct 12
Yes, really need to add more spice-up and put my dicussion in the right interests, Thanks.