She Is Broken Hearted So Do I :((

Philippines
October 15, 2012 11:28am CST
hi mylotters, Just few days ago I started a topic that I am happy because my friend found a new love but today another friend is having a hard time with her relationship. She don't know if she can still be in this kind of relationship no doubt that they love each other but the problem is they are miles away and have different culture, they already meet personally I and other friends even meet this guy we know what will gonna be the ending of their love story. But not all love story has a happy ending I sent her message on facebook asking How she is but I don't get any reply from her I joked at her saying that she is snobbish after a minute I received a text message from her saying that "Sis I don't want to talk to you for awhile it makes me sad more " upon reading this I am bit hurt and tears fall down on my cheeks I know what she felt right now and she really need a friend but I must respect her decision to be alone for awhile. I know she will be fine anytime soon and I hope the guy will just be honest with her Sometimes Culture differences and beliefs S*CKS happy mylotting
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4 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
She replied to my post earlier and she agreed for a date on her birthday. maybe not exactly on her birthday- but she agreed. I do feel she wants to be alone...i am also broken seeing her that way
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
hi jai, I am such a baby so much affected with the situation I just talked to her the other day she even asked me to write a break up letter I don't know if she send that one. I hope she will be alright any time soon. miss yah
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
well, at least you are aware now that not every love story are like fairy tales. especially when it comes to culture/traditions.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
I know that but Love is like a gamble you can lose or you can win
viju0410
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
16 Oct 12
Hi dear, Seems to have a system error! I thought love has no culture but only differences, it has no miles apart but always close (or even rounded up in the heart). May be this love story needed more time to communicate, sorry to hear about it.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
hi viju, This relationship needs GUTS AND HONESTY actually no offense meant but guy's family is into Arrange Marriage and they don't approve their relationship. I just hope my friend will be fine anytime soon. thanks for the response happy mylotting
rberon1985
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Sometimes culture difference and long distance are big factors in a relationship. I had a long distance relationship before, and honestly it is really hard. you really have to exert effort just for you to able to talk to that person. Our relationship lasted for couple of years but still did not end up happily. But we are good friends now. I agree with you, not all relationships ends happily. let your friend handle it first. let's respect her decision. as what my last post say, "smile" though your heart is aching.just understand the feelings that she had right now, one of this days, she would call or text you that she is already okay. just give her a little space for quite sometime. happy sharing!!
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
hi rberon, Of course I respect her decision as a friend I must thanks for the response happy mylotting
natliegleb
@natliegleb (5173)
• India
16 Oct 12
she agreed to post after some time,hope this get settled pretty soon since we cant tolerate such activities
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
hi nat, I hope to that it will be over soon thanks for the response happy mylotting