If you were to encounter an accident. . .

@dorannmwin (36392)
United States
October 15, 2012 9:14pm CST
This evening Paul and I were on our way home from dropping Angie off at the detention center (only two more weeks to go). Well, we were on a main road that runs through the center of the main university here in town and traffic came to a crawl. I assumed that there had been an accident. What I didn't assume is what I saw. There was a man or boy laying in the middle of the street. Being that I have training in first aid/first responder and also CPR training. I pulled my car up onto the nearest side walk, turned off the engine and told Paul to stay put in the car (he didn't need to see all of that). I ran up to the accident site and tried to get out into the road to check the man for airway, breathing and cirulation. Well, the man that was signaling traffic (a civilian, not a police officer, they weren't there yet) told me to not even try to get out of there. Shortly thereafter, the fire truck and ambulances arrived, so I knew that the man was in good hands. I know that he had a head injury as that was where the blood was coming from. I could also tell that he had been a pedestrian when he was hit. If you were to encounter an accident like this, would you have stopped, or would you have just rubbernecked and gone on about your business? Do you think that it is right when people just go on when something like this happens? Seeing all of the cars that just drove past (and almost hit the cars that were stopped to block off the man) just sickened me.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I am not a medical person, nor I have any training on first aid. But if I were to see something like that, I would pull over and approach them with my phone and I will offer to call the paramedics if nobody has done so. I also carry with me a bottled water all the time so I will take it to whoever might need it. If I see that everything's been taken cared of, then I will bid my goodbye from the scene. I am a bit squeamish, but the thought that if ever something like that happened to me or any of my loved ones (knock on wood, hope to God it won't), I also want some kind-hearted people to help us.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
The fact that you would be able to offer just the simplest thing like that because it is what you would be able to do shows that you really are a kind hearted person. I also think that the fact that you wouldn't crowd the scene if everything was taken care of also really does say a lot of great things about you.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
The fact that you would be able to offer just the simplest thing like that because it is what you would be able to do shows that you really are a kind hearted person. I also think that the fact that you wouldn't crowd the scene if everything was taken care of also really does say a lot of great things about you.
@kokomo (1866)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
I would stop and do something whatever I can help to that victim. If there is no ambulance yet I will call the emergency hotline for some nearer hospitals. I do not have any experience yet about first aiding but I attended training about first aides before.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
This particular accident actually happened within easy walking distance of a hospital (and in fact the local hospital with the trauma center). However, it wasn't an option to move the victim because there was clearly a head injury and very well could have been a spinal cord injury as well.
@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I would have stopped. I've done so before. Way back when I was a practicing RN, I felt I was under an obligation to stop and give first aid. Then people started taking good smaratins to court and some of us started having second thoughts about stopping. Fortunately, I never was sued for assisting but in today's world, I don't know whether I'd stop or not. I'm retired and have let my license lapse so I definitely don't know what I'd do now.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
That would be a tough call to make. If it was I in your shoes, I wouldn't stop if there was already someone there on the scene. However, if there wasn't someone there, I wouldn't be able to just go on, my conscious just wouldn't let me do it.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Oct 12
im afraid i would just go on if they needed medical help. im not trained in any of it. but if they needed other assistance such as a place to sit and wait for police or something id do that as my hubby did that once when we saw an older woman stuck out with no place to wait. she wasnt injured but she'd been gotten out of the wrecked car. ive helped several people on the road but try and stay out of the way if they are badly injured. id just be in the medics way.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
Now, I can say that if there were already medics on the scene, then my reaction would be a lot different from the reaction that I did have. However, there was no one yet on the scene and that is the reason that I felt like I needed to stop. I'm just glad that the paramedics showed up right after I got to the scene of the accident because they are much better equipped to deal with this kind of trauma than I am able to do.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
16 Oct 12
Hello dorannmwin you are indeed very brave!! Congratulations. I`d like to be like you, seriously. My husband is beside me and I`ve already told him about you. I know first aids too, and I know about CPR but I never had offered to help somebody on the street, I`m not as brave and courageous as you are. I would have felt many fear to help them. A lot of responsability for me. God bless u. Scly. I`m happy that finally arrived the ambulance, and you could go away happy. Blessings dorannmwin... dainy
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
I don't know that I was really able to walk away from the scene of the accident happy because I don't know what the young man's outcome was. However, I was able to at least feel relieved that those that had more training in the trauma area had arrived to care for him.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
16 Oct 12
I think I would stop for any accident even if just to ask if they needed help. Sometimes everyone assumes someone calls 911 and at the end no one did.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
That is true. On the other hand, there could also be five or more 911 calls on the same accident. However, it is better to be over covered in this kind of a situation than for everyone to forget to call for emergency help.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Oct 12
hi dorannmwin yes I would stop as I worked as a Certified nurse's aide most of my life so i could help and I have been in a similar situation as I took a bad fall beside my favorite resturant five years ago, People gathered lookyh loos i guess hoping for blood bu t dfid not offer any real help. b ut this older couplke drove up and the womand called to me do you Need Help and I called I think so Icannot get up. they had t heir grandson with them,. he was six and he kept talking to me while we waited for the para medics. I had put my hands down to lever myself up to my feet but my left arm just dangled. the para medics arrived in five minutes. at first I told them I thought my arm was dislocated but the older of the two told me'" maam we cannot leave you to wander around, your shoulder must be checked out,". I was glad they insisted as when I got there they x rayed my shoulder and the bones were not just broken bu smashed . I had to have a shoulder joint replacement so am a bionic woman,. lol,. the little boy was such a help as he kept asking me questions and telline me I would be fine as the paramedics would get me to the hospital and make me all well. I did not get their names but when I got out of the hospitals I put a notice in the paper thanking the middle aged couple with Gary their grandson who helped me when I fell and was badly hurt.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
That was sweet of you to put the thank you notice in the local newspaper. Now in my situation I left Paul in the car but the main reason that I did that was because there was a lot of blood and also it was one of the most busy streets in the city and I wouldn't have been able to stand myself had something happened to my son because I was doing what my conscious called for me to do.
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Oct 12
You have great, helpful instincts, dorannmwin! I'd have to say that by the time I see an actual accident, there are already people there, if not the paramedics or the police. But if I saw that it just happened or that no one was helping, definitely I'd at least stop and get on the phone to get help. As others have said, I don't have that kind of emergency training, so I know I couldn't actually help the injured in that way. But I know I couldn't just pass them by - oh, my conscience would not let me do that . . . what if the tables were turned and it were me or the people I loved. Wow, can't believe people just drove past like that!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
And there were so many people that just drove past. It is one of the busiest streets in the city that we were on. My conscious would still be bothering me had I not followed my heart and stopped. I know that I didn't really do anything, but still to have not even offered would have been so much worse in my opinion.
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I have seen something like this once when I was on my way home from a long car trip with my daughters. One of them was asleep and my oldest was looking oh the window and she saw what happened. If I were properly trained and everything I would have stopped and helped. I don't know if u told that man who was directing trafic that u were trained but that's what I would have done. For all I know from what I've read is that there comes a stranges lady(I take it y'all were perfect strangers and he didn't know what u know so he didn't want ur help because maybe he tougt u didn't know how to save the injured man or boy. But hey! U did the best u could. I'm sure if u wernt so full of shock u would have told him u know how to save his life because ur trained. For what it's worth I hope everyone is doing better; including u! At the other hand I'm glad ur not here where I am. I work at a nursing home..and this aid who is fully trained to save a persons life if the need called for it; but should she help anyone here she would loose her job and get sued It made me angry when I heard this because from one person to the next if I saw someone needed help I would try to help out.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
17 Oct 12
I did tell the man that I was trained, but I really didn't push the issue too much because by that time I could hear the sirens and knew that help that was truly trained for trauma would soon be there. I stayed there for a minute and helped the ambulance get safely close to the injured party and then went on my way. I knew that the man was in good hands at that point.