I'm busy knowing her dislike not her likes.

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October 16, 2012 7:08am CST
Its true I don't want to know what my wife likes,but I'm busy searching her dislikes and what she hates. I think its better for me to know what she doesn't like so I can avoid them and what she love I just go with it. Her happiness will be my happiness so I avoid her dislike to make her happy. How about you guys what do you usually find out,your partner likes or her dislikes?
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10 responses
@ztuberi (395)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
You're not like other guys I think (busy knowing and searching for your wife's likes/dislikes). Maybe because you're far away with each other? or she's pregnant? (sounds weird to me). I mean, why do you have to do that? The danger thing with that is you might misunderstood your wife. For me, you can ask her and discuss things with her. Its the connection that matters and how you manage your likes and dislikes.
@ztuberi (395)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
You're not perfect. As well as your wife. You should love each other with your differences. Thank you.,
17 Oct 12
Ok maybe I will do that too. When we are together I avoid those dislikes and she hates because I don't want her to be mad and sad. There is only one motive here.To know her dislikes because I don't want to commit mistakes with all the she don't like and start an arguments. Thank you..
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
I agree it is better to know what our partner doesn't like to avoid argument and misunderstanding. Besides, it is easy to determine what our partner wants and likes compared to what they doesn't like or hate.
27 Oct 12
We have the same motive and I think its getting well with me. Thanks!
@youless (112096)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Oct 12
It is very thoughtful of you. However, I am not sure which is much more important. Knowing her likes or dislikes? But perhaps I think you shall also try to know what her likes. Try to imagine if you give her a gift, isn't it better that you will give her something she dreams for? As to me, I prefer my husband to know what is my favorite.
17 Oct 12
When we are together I can easily know what she like and favorites.But I don't know what she hates and dislikes.In that case I don't know how to avoid them.And that would make her mad But those she likes I don't have to avoid I can enjoy with her. I just want to manage things with her carefully so I search her dislikes not to make her mad.
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
18 Oct 12
I think you should be conscious of both. If you paid extra attention to her likes and made an effort to make them happen then she would probably not worry too much if you accidentally stumbled on a dislike :)
27 Oct 12
You have a good point here. Thanks!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Oct 12
Sorry but when it comes to women the best you can do indeed is to find what she hates cause that's more unberable than you forget her likes. Give her the type of presents she wants on your anniversary as a couple and her birthday and focus on knowing what she hates , it really works.
17 Oct 12
Oh thank you that's an additional knowledge how to make my wife happy. I will follow that suggestion. Thanks to you!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I think most people would be concentrating on knowing what their partner's likes because we want our partner to be happy with us. For me, knowing what my husband likes helps a lot coz I really go out of my way to show and give him what he likes. His dislikes, well, I just learn them along the way.
27 Oct 12
That's good and hope you have a happy relationship always. Thanks!
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
16 Oct 12
wow thats a great motive atleast in that way you can prevent from doing disliking activities.its a great move
17 Oct 12
Thanks and that makes her happy too. Thank you for responding.Great day!
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 12
when I read your first sentence, I was like, what a bad husband. lol sorry. it's nice to have a husband like you, a husband that follows everything we, girls, want. it's just I think it's nice too to know what my boyfriend likes and dislikes. when he comes everything just exactly as me, I would think, first he's avoiding arguing with me, second he's bored with me, third he doesn't know what he really wants. for me, the third actually is the least appealing kind of guy. so did you find them? the things your wife doesn't like. my boyfriend is the kinda same type as you. he just goes fine with what I want. though I did manage to find his favorite things and things he prefers to do, also the things he hates. I tried almost everything to find it out. and I am happy about it. yes yes, I am such a troll girlfriend. XD
17 Oct 12
Yes I want my wife to be happy so I try to avoid what makes her mad and what she doesn't like. I think whatever her like are I cannot have any comments at all.If its makes her happy no more words from me. Thanks for taking your time in my discussions.:)
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
16 Oct 12
its good to know someone. But sometimes its better not to know all things. have a great day there.
17 Oct 12
Thanks I will keep that additional thought.Great day too!
@Bojan95 (13)
• China
27 Oct 12
To be honest,what you are doing now has already shown your love of her.As myself,I often gave some candy to my girlfriend because she likes.But I think what I have done is not enough.So it's same to you.If your wife could know your effort in mylot.com she'd be happy.So just hold on,be with her.Good luck.What's more,you're handsome,and your wife is beautiful.