My sister in law is holding a grudge against me and my husband
By kemak28
@kemak28 (724)
United States
October 16, 2012 10:17am CST
It's going on almost a year now my sister in law has been holding a grudge against me and my husband. This is my husband's brother's wife.
They live a half a mile away from us , she is a stay at home mom just like me with a baby a little younger then mine. They used to come over all the time or invite us over once a week. My husband invites his brother and her over all the time and they always say no. The last time they were over here was in May. She won't hardly speak to me at family functions so its just awkward. I have offered toys to them that my girl has outgrown of and they tell me they don't need any. I am done trying...yet I feel bad. She is a young spoiled girl and I just don't know how to handle it. My husband is tired of hearing about it. I just feel bad he hardly sees his brother anymore.
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3 responses
@riyauro (6421)
• India
16 Oct 12
oh that's bad. In families it happens but some people keep the grudge like for ever. I have seen my mother in law not talking to her sister who stays some 100m from our house. after so many years past, now few months back they started talking. It is bad to keep grudge. I hope one day she realizes it. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead 
@lologirl2021 (5541)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I dont get along with my sister in law at all and she doesnt get along with any of my family at all. I see my brother every once in a while and when he comes over with out her he actually comes to find me in my parents house and gives me a hug and talks to me and see how im doing with everything. When she is with him he wont talk to me or even say hi or bye its really weird like she controls everything he does or something im not really sure but shes weird and fat anyways LOL. She used to think i was spoiled and that my parents did everything for me and im not really sure how she got that in her head only because i danced 17 years on my life and was spoiled that way and grew up in the modeling industry so she doesnt unerstand how are family is and how close we are and vacations concists of more than 10 most of the time and we all get along except for her.
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
16 Oct 12
We are not really oblige to be close and cozy with our in-laws, especially if they're the ones starting the drama. But her husband shouldn't let his wife's bratty attitude to come between him and his own brother. But more often than not, I always notice that most people change whenever they get married. It is a good thing if they change for the better due to the influence of the spouse; but if the change is worse, that's just not right.
