Will you ready to staying the other's guestes in you home?
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
October 16, 2012 10:54pm CST
Yesterday some guests are came from Mumbai to my town for seeing the daughter of my husband's elders father's son's daughter for marriage. Only two lodge is in our town and both are full. So my FIL says them your guest may be stay in our home. Day before yesterday we both (husband and wife)clean the house. We have two Manjil house so prepare the second Manjil's room for them. Till late night 1am we do the work.
We both are not like this and annoying not on FIL but in under heart why they are coming because full day schedule is disturbed. I know everyone is not ready for these but my FIL always ready for anyone. Now Today will spend full day in breakfast, tea, lunch etc. No made servant in my home so clean all pots means spend 2 hours in it. I not like this why no other family members house everytime why our home is ready for anyone.
Last time my cousin dever wants to performed his love marriage then his family members and girl was stay in our home and marriage performed the temple of our town. I was started the discussion on it 1 year before instant marriage. At that time also my FIL was ready to complete all work in our home.
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7 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Oct 12
I tend to be the person that is really not comfortable with staying in someone else's house. However, I am one of the people that always has my door open for someone to stay with us if that is what they need at the time. I know that allowing others to stay in our home is something that does require more from us, but in the long run this is something that I am really comfortable in doing because that is just the kind of giving heart that I have.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Oct 12
Hmmm it means I can came any time in your home nice so wait I will came. The guest was happy in our home because they are saying area is calm and house is really nice lots of air is coming in house by window.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
17 Oct 12
lol,
in my childhood i was not liked when guests residing in my home.
i used to ask my mom "when they will leave our home" with irritation.
now i can understand the customs.
of course, it is really so sad to bear the guests those who behaves irregularly.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
Yes guest means wasting the time and disturb the schdule and specially when guest is not our own.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
I actually do not mind having guests as long as i am not busy too but most of the time, i still welcome them at home and make it a point that they are comfortable and are happy with their stay..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
Hmmmm lots of work when they came and no made servant in my house. Everything is by hand like washing cloth, cleaning vessels, clearning tiles etc. Full day tiredness and they are not our guests they are others guests and staying in our house because lodge was full.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
Well, you can very well ask your FIL for a maid to help you clean the house and just be there in your house to help you serve the guests.
He will understand because he knows how hard it is to accommodate guests at a short notice.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
We cant ask anything because my husband annoy on me and say leave it if they are saying means do it. Maid servant is not available here. Yes my husband understand so he help me for every work.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
hi surekha,
Actually we don't have a extra room at home now but we have a vacant house which can accommodate 4-6 people I guess but since someone is renting it I don't think we can accommodate some people now but there are lot of hotels near my house.
Some of my friends can stay overnight or few days they will just share room with me when it comes to cleaning the places well they are old enough to be considerate about is since it's been months since we don't have a house keeper.
happy mylotting
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
Thats nice no extra room means no chance for stating the guest. Today full day spend behind them for making meals, making breakfast and tea etc. I hate why other's guest are in our home.
@arnabroy16 (438)
• Howrah, India
17 Oct 12
Yes, it's true that when a guest come in our house our daily schedule is disturbed a little bit but we have to manage with that,that will not happen everyday you have adjust it for few days only...
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
You are right not every day but every after few days some members came in our house because everyone knows my FIL is very simple and ready to help for anyone.
@Rohitt03011979 (249)
• India
17 Oct 12
Hello surekharathi!
Well its good that you people have honour to serve other people.that too your father in laws guests.but i agree that it will disturb your schedule.try to manage with a maid servant.in our life we should try to earn people.have a good day.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
The guests is not my FIl's but elder father in laws, son's guest to see his daughter. No chance of made servant because every women going in agriculture for Soyabin. Your profile photo is nice hmmmm both are looking good like me and my hubby heheh...just kidding. But you both are looking good I think you are also Gujrati or Maheshwari. AM I right?
