how can you find happiness in others....?

India
October 19, 2012 12:25pm CST
Hi friends, I am a newbie to my lot. my name is priya. coming to discussion. How a human being can be happy? what will makes him more happy? I asked this question myself many times, every time i find "empty space" only. Then there will be ultimate answer i got it, happiness is like a ocean. we can find it in everything. It is there within. Really that is true. I can find happiness by making others laugh with my little jokes in my college. and what is your way? feel free to share your valuable views. with best regards: sweetyPriya
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hi sweetypriya first of all i want to welcome you here in mylot and for sure you will enjoy it like all of us do. I have been through a lot of pain and hardship in my life but when my husband came in to my life everything as been change. I become happy and had a reason to smile everyday because of his unconditional love to me and to my family. He is the source of my strength and happiness.
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• India
20 Oct 12
Hi Bhebelen14 thank u so munch
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
19 Oct 12
hi priya, welcome to my lot the great friendship community. i can find happiness by seeing nature, kids, children. there is hidden power in children smile, while birds flying, pets dancing. i can see the world in a different angle with my sweet thoughts. that is the thing making me happy.
@peaceful (3294)
• United States
19 Oct 12
Hello and welcome to Mylot! My name is Peaceful and I have been a member of Mylot for 6 years! The fact that you have asked such a question means to me that you might already have an idea of what happiness is within others and within yourself. Here is a little of what I have learned about Happiness- Happiness is truly a State Of Being whose strength and power is perhaps determined by the very existance of the Being that experiences it... In other words, it is a Natural feature of your very own Life. It is your Birth- Right and it is as much a part of you as your own blood, bone and sinew. You can give away large amounts of Happiness and still never reach the end of your own supply. It is infinite and never empty! To find the Happiness within others, be quick to remind them of it with a smile, a joke or even a good meal... Your own kindness is a part of Happiness and you will forever be Blessed with it... Again, Welcome to Mylot and Blessed Be!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Finding true happiness is within. You must have a peaceful mind and a forgiving heart to make yourself happy with everything that is around you. Going through life's trials might discourage you to go one, but always think of the brighter things in life and that will help you achieve happiness.
• India
20 Oct 12
Hi jenny yes your are right thinking of the brighter things in life will definitely help to achieve success
20 Oct 12
Hello sweetypriya, Happyness should be the life of human.We can get happyness through many ways like be satisfy what we have so we never get frustration,other way never look on other with evil eye every one is our friend in the world. So be happy...
• Romania
19 Oct 12
Hi.Hapiness. I think that concept depends of the nature of human being. I can't say that I'm optimist, but I learn to enjoy any moment. For example, I enjoy a lot of time with my friends and I love this. These moments are specially and I can find happiness in my friends.
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
20 Oct 12
its quite simple the logic is to make others smile and make them happy always for sure.its the ultimate joy
• Bangladesh
20 Oct 12
Welcome prya. Prya sounds like a good name. However you are right. If you dont have funny friends or if you are not funny or if you cant make other laugh then no happiness will be available in others for you.
• Bangladesh
20 Oct 12
Welcome prya. Prya sounds like a good name. However you are right. If you dont have funny friends or if you are not funny or if you cant make other laugh then no happiness will be available in others for you.
@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
To learn not to expect too much from them. Good day!
20 Oct 12
My sweet girl Happiness does not mean to have any thing you desire and then smile.Happiness is a sensation which satisfies your heart and give you real inner peace. First of all look around you around. Nature follows one simple rule to keep environment happy and that rule is just Live for others.It makes you happy. Always think good for others. Always Thought positive for others. When all doors of Happiness seems closed to you then don't get disheart. Here is the key to use that time to open all doors. The key is just find some people who were in really problem solve there problem without expecting something from them.They give you nothing but inner peace that will kepp you happy even when you lost every thing in your life.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
what makes me happy bye doing such a great things,happiness in my life.its good and nice to accompany those people who was funny and joker because he/she is very good bye doing such a great things and happiness in my life just like bye laugh and laffing until the whole day in my life.especially there are inspiration also why you makes you happy and live in life happy, grateful,and full of happiness, peacefully and no problem because happiness makes people happy and forget their problem ,because i believe laughter is the best medicine in our life.
• India
20 Oct 12
HI Priya....I AM ANIL.. Here two things are there....one is we r happy becoz of making the the others happy..second is we r happy only..i told u one story ...The god appears and said to man..DO U WANT HELL OR HEAVEN? man asks "Bhagavan What is hell ? what is heaven? " god replies heaven is happy,hell is unhappy?" Again Man asked "bhagavan Where the Happy lives without Unhappy.." means if we bear unhappy situations ,whenever we face them successfully,we r more happy......,that is real happy comes from unhappy situations..these r making happy others,or help etc...
• India
20 Oct 12
Happiness can found in human being or Animal or A non-living thing.In order to get it we should just accept anything from it/them as happiness.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
20 Oct 12
Hi priya, Happiness is a state of mind or a pleasant feeling of mind; it may change at any time. It depends, not only an individual but the surrounding people too. I mean, the people around us make any nuisance it will affect happiness. It is the ability of human being to find happiness on small things. But I admit human beings are different, some can disturb with small things, and some others can be happy even if small disturbance there. However, life is mixed with happy and sorrow, just like, if there is a hill there must be a valley too.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Oct 12
hi sweetypriya welcome to mylot wow 2 you really are new. I find happiness with myfriends here in Gold Crest and most of all' with my mylot friends too.Also my adult son comes to see me each week here and I am always happy and glad to see him. also my best fri[end Nelda emails me during the week from work and I email her back. so friends and family make me happy and I make myself happ y by thinking of the things I really like.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Hi sweetypriya, Welcome here,like me i am also new here but i enjoyed my 4 weeks stayed here until now and that makes me happy too. Happiness comes from within,is not something ready made, it comes from your own action...doing something that you want and doing something that you know you will make someone happy is only called happiness. Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony...smile always.
20 Oct 12
I found happiness when I help others with their struggles, it makes me happy to do just that. If I see someone smiling because of me, I feel happier that i can change people's lives. Another thing that makes me happy,would be to succeed, to succeed in life by doing what I love. Having personal goals to reach, and once they are reached I feel so happy that I made it on my own. :)
20 Oct 12
Hi, you can call me Tim. I'm also a newbie here. Nice to meet you! What give me the most of my happiness is that I can enjoy beautiful nature around me, like watching the sky in the midnight or enjoying the travel time with my family. Yeah, happiness is like a ocean, which can effects others. If you have happiness inside of your heart, everybody around you will see your face full of love. And they will try to give their happiness to you, too!
@THISISIT (63)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
hi , all i can say is you can find happiness in others by becoming a good example of how you are to them and for them. You can count on your blessings and share some to others. you can even tell them some of your inspirational stories that gave you strength and will power. always stay positive and learn from our mistakes and we can share them to other people as well to become a learning experience and lesson to them as well. Always remember that each one of us is a creation of God and we can make things in life possible through Him.