the most important thing in a relationship...loyalty or love?

China
October 25, 2012 9:46pm CST
in a relationship,there are many things involved,such as true love,loyalty,ages,etc..each has its own values,any of them is very important during a relationship,but which of them do you think is the most important,loyalty or love? and why?
5 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
26 Oct 12
I think that you have to have both if you're going to be with somebody for a long time, because I just don't think that you could be in a relationship with somebody who you didn't love. You have to love them to know what you want for the future, and if you don't love them then things would get boring very quickly. You also have to make sure that they are loyal to you, because you have to be able to trust them and you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with somebody who you thought might cheat on you in the future.
• China
29 Oct 12
yeah,you have your points..
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
for me this two words should always have in a relationship,because if one of them will be lost then the relationship will become nothing,i need to choose the two of them,because without love you can not have loyalty to your partner.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
26 Oct 12
What's more important: six or half-a-dozen? ... that is, your asking 'which side of a coin is worth money?' answer: they're both the coin. in other words, Loyalty IS Love! Lord Jesus said "There is no greater love than ... that a man give up his life for his friend." 'Giving up your life' is 'forsaking the opportunities that might be better for you in order to support the better life of someone else.'
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Oct 12
both are important. No relationship will continue or be strong if you are not loyal, no relationsship will be strong with if there is no love at all or either. Age is not important since age has nothing to do with being loyal or love, nor with security or care. Life experience is important so is respect and being attentive and being a good friend.
• India
26 Oct 12
A relationship is a very important part of a relationship. It is quite difficult to say which things are most important to keep a relationship strong. Because there are a lot of things that together make a relationship strong. So you need to understand it that a true relationship depends on a lot of factors. It's not that if you only love the person and the person is going to be happy. You need to show your love as well. If you only love your partner and never have shown your love, your partner never felt your love, the relationship is never going to work. To make a relationship work, showing love is a must. Loyalty also plays a prominent role in building a strong relationship. There are surely many other factors that affect a relationship. So there is no logic to search for the most important factor that affects a relationship most. If you are facing any problem in your relationship it would be better to read the following article. Hope it would help you to understand a relationship better. Read http://uniquelifeguide.com/2012/02/7-things-to-start-doing-in-your-relationship.html/