Making unpopular decisions.

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Agree with me that most of the time, we make decisions which we think will be acceptable to other people surrounding us. It's frightening to even think about coming up with a decision that will make others judge us in a negative way. Somewhere in our minds, we consider what others will say and how they will view us later on based on a particular choice we had to make. And that influences our decision making. So many people live a rather sad life because they always have to consider what others will think and feel and say when they choose to do this or that. Others' satisfaction becomes their top priority over their own happiness. I don't know why it should be but I do believe that all of us are given the right to make our own choices based on our best judgment. It may not be the best as how others view "best" but it's best enough to cause us real joy and happiness. Besides, it's our life. Whatever consequences we have to face later on, it's us who will be taking it and not anyone else. Not our family, not our relatives, not our friends, not our neighbors. They're no one but spectators in our lives. Most of them aren't even partakers so why do we give them the upper hand when we are to make decisions, in the first place? No matter how unpopular our decisions may be, I believe we gotta make use of our freewill without being scared of others' judgment. We are, each one of us, unique. And, every decision...every choice we make, only shows how we are truly different from the people surrounding us. Let's celebrate our uniqueness and be not afraid to live. Life in itself tough. We need not make it tougher by complicating things only because our kind of choices is unpopular. How about you? Would you still push with a decision you're so convinced taking even you know that the people closest to you disagree? Share your thoughts, please. G'day, all!