I Am Not Going Anywhere Else Mylotters - Will Be With You Forever!
By rberon1985
@rberon1985 (5359)
Philippines
October 29, 2012 9:19am CST
For those who was not able to read my post earlier, I posted about leaving site for some personal reason. I am so touched because I saw a lot of responses and felt their feelings toward the situation. I am just upset because it was deleted again. I just don't what was the basis of deleting that post. After few hours being out in mylot, I thought of the happy memories that I have here. I thought of the people who gives me inspiration in life to keep going. I thought of the conference that I organized for two consecutive years. Having all these experience. I just can't leave the site.I have learned a lot of things here. I have met a lot of people from different walks of life with different culture and beliefs. So there is no reason for me to go just because of a simple problem or issue. I will be with you guys unntil the end.
[b] Rberon1985
-Touching the lives of other peeople-[/b]
[b] Rberon1985
-Touching the lives of other peeople-[/b]6 people like this
32 responses
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
If speaking of personal problems, I have a lot of them. And I am trying to solve them one by one. Mylot is a great place to share our thoughts, ideas, point of view and insights in the different topics posted here.i have been part of the site for a very long time and I really love to be here. Maybe i am just emotional yesterday that is why i decided to leave.but i'm fine now
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
29 Oct 12
I haven't seen the other topic. I am glad you know how much myLot means to you and find it so inspiring. Just know some members also find you inspiring. 
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
It's good that you did not see that topic because I was very emotional on that Goddbye post of mine
but I'm glad because I saw of responses and telling me to think about it many times before I can finally decide.Now, I decided to stay and be here forever.
but I'm glad because I saw of responses and telling me to think about it many times before I can finally decide.Now, I decided to stay and be here forever.@echoforever (5180)
• United States
30 Oct 12
I'm glad you decided to stay. I'd never consider to leave! 
I hope whatever made you think of leaving has stopped or left or something so you don't ever think that again. 
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
I just saw your other post and felt sad. And when I went to it, it has been deleted. And I felt all the more sad because I remember one of your discussions where I said I will stay with Mylot until forever. I feel sad every time someone says goodbye, or every time I look up a Mylot friend and see his/her account deleted.
But, I checked my mails once more and saw this. So, welcome back! I hope you'll stay on... Maybe leave for sometime when things are busy offline, or when you get overwhelmed by the site... but, there's always Mylot, our home, to go back to! 1 person likes this
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
And, don't worry because ML is big enough for all of us. So, if you have an issue or issues with a particular person or persons, or discussions, or things like that, you could always avoid them, right? Although whatever was your personal issue then, I hope you have resolved it now or will be able to resolve in the future.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
I am trying to post the best discussion as I can so the people or the members will get to enjoy my post. It take me sometime to make a topic. I always think of a title which will give a member a motivation to respond on my post.I just don't post because it is necessary, I post discussion with passion, with feelings and with desciptive details. I love being here and i love all the members who've been very supportive to me all the time.
@miadsoriano (884)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I was about to respond to your other post about you leaving, when I discovered that it wasn't there anymore. From what I gather here now, you are no longer leaving. That is good news! Seriously, I can't think of a reason why anyone would leave mylot when it is such a fun community. Is it really because your post was deleted? I hope you won't mind my asking, but how many times have your posts been deleted actually? Because a couple of my posts have been deleted already. The first one stung a little. The second time left me just a little confused. I am not sure and do not even remember if another discussion of mine was deleted a third time. But you know what? It doesn't affect me so much anymore. I have learned to let things be. other than post new discussions, you know what I do more often instead? I prefer to simply respond to people's discussions. I enjoy it really. It's much less of a hassle. But anyway, I'm glad you opted to stay. Happy mylotting to you!
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
Deleted discussion has nothing to do with the reason of leaving the site.It is actually a personal reason. It happened yesterday afternoon.I don't want to elaborate it and I don't want to ruin my day.I will be here for the rest of my life. I love the site so much.I have met a lot of good of people in the site.I have learned a lot of things in the site.
@miadsoriano (884)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Ok then. I was merely being curious and a little too snoopy I think. Sorry about that. Anyway, it's good to know that you have changed your mind. Wish you well here in mylot.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
30 Oct 12
Hi Rberon,
Try not to take deletions personally. They happen to all of us. I know I have been upset before, but after thinking about my posts, I realized that I had violated the TOS. Poll discussions are the worst offenders... it's hard not to make a poll discussion... I've learned to just ask for "your thoughts" rather than asking if anyone has experienced this or that. I've learned from other mylotters how to prevent making polls.
I'm glad you aren't leaving. I have lots of memories here too and would never want to leave.
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@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
2 Nov 12
Sometimes, the guidelines should be a little bit lenient towards not so offensive content, but it is difficult to ensure so.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Oct 12
hi rberon you have been a real inspiration to me too so am glad you are going to
stay here where you belong on Mylot. I know I am addicted to my lot and am staying here for the rest of my life happy here and have so many many wonderful my lot friends here. they all have touched my life and made me happy and welcome
always. so stay as we need you and your upbeat happy ways. I k ow its no
fun when you get som ething deleted but for me I did know why and a ccepted'
my goof and s ure learned from it too.
from hatley.thaks for so many times telling me to calm down,
from hatley.thaks for so many times telling me to calm down,1 person likes this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
You are actually one of the reasons,why I stay here in mylot.You have been an inspiration to everyone especially to the youngster here. Who will imagine an 80 year old lady can go with the trend of the generation today? usually they just stay in the retirement center or they will just be lying on a bed and waiting for their family members to assist them. But you are really different from them. You made the difference, that made me inspire to you.I will be here as long as the management wants me to be here.I love this site so much because of good members and fun environment.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
30 Oct 12
If your problem or issue was with the site and you mentioned it that would have been seen as complaining. In that case, it would explain why your discussion had been deleted. You could always send an email asking for help to understand.
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@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I read in one of the comments something about a post being deleted. So I see that was the reason, or part of it, that made you think of leaving this community. It's good that you've changed your mind. I would've seen you as a quitter, and that would be quite disappointing. Filipinos aren't like that. We always stand up each time we're down.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I won't give up just because my discussion was just deleted. I have been here for a very long time. I just have a reason which I can't really share here the reason of leaving. As what I told everyone in my first post, sometimes you have to leave even though you don't want to do it, but you are required to do it.I agree with you that Filipinos like us are not quitter. We stand at once whenever we fall.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
29 Oct 12
Ohh yes I also respond on your discussion and today my 9 responses are deleted not I changed my strategy now I will respond on old discussions not new discussions.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I apologize if you response to my discussion was deleted. I actually don't know the reason or what is their basis for deleting my discussion. But anyway,I am not leaving the site already. I will be here forever as long as the admin wants me to be here. This site has given a lot of opportunities to improve myself.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
Hi jkct02
we were actually talking if i will be leaving the site or not.but any way, we can't say if the world is alreay ending on December 21,2012. Only God can tell. no one else can declare the status of the world. but as early as now, we have to ask for forgiveness to all our sins.
but any way, we can't say if the world is alreay ending on December 21,2012. Only God can tell. no one else can declare the status of the world. but as early as now, we have to ask for forgiveness to all our sins.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
Don't worry fictorial there will be a lot of conferences to come. Yoy can still enjoy it even I am not the organizer of the event. Filipinos are good in organizing such events. I became so emotional yesterday afternnon some personal reason.I will be here and I will be as active as before.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
29 Oct 12
As I posted to your other post. I like seeing your posts here. I am glad you decided to stay here. we need more my lotters like you here. Have agreat week there.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
You guys are my inspiration why I am staying in the site. You motivates me to give more good output.I cannot do all this thngs without your moral support. I will be here as long as the admin wants me to be here.I will continue my legacy and credibility in the site.I will be more helpful to all the newbies and share what I have.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
Geee pls don't! I am really glad to be able to read your "2nd post" today..
I'm honestly going to be sad if you bade goodbye especially I wasn't online for 2 days. :S
Pls keep your account :D Just log in whenever you're free, I believe mylot never pressured you to be on daily. Being online is having fun too =) I know you feel the same way!
Cheers and have a fine bedtime =)
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
The number of responses that I got from my first topic motivates me to stay. I felt like I am important to the site. I become so emotional after something happened to the site late afternoon yesterday.I thought that would be my last post already. But here I am again. trying to stand up after a short fall. I hope this will a continuous feelings already.I would love to be here for the rest of my life.
@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
2 Nov 12
There is definitely something in Mylot that brings us back, again and again to this site and increase our interest in this site.
Sometimes, we might not be so much active on this site, yet we come back here for all the excitement it offers, and varied discussions.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
You still have a lot to share with other myLotters so it's a good decision that you stayed.
@aireanna18 (1914)
• United States
30 Oct 12
rberon, I am glad that you decided to come back to myLot. You are a great friend, and it is wonderful seeing you here in the forums. I hope the problem that you mentioned above in your post has somehow resolved itself.
Great to see you back! Have a great day
I hope the problem that you mentioned above in your post has somehow resolved itself.
Great to see you back! Have a great day
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
That's good , that you have changed your decision rberon.
A simple issue should just be ignored, considering that you have been here for many years and have gained a lot of friends. Any issue could just be talked about so as to settle it. Compromise if you can.
A simple issue should just be ignored, considering that you have been here for many years and have gained a lot of friends. Any issue could just be talked about so as to settle it. Compromise if you can.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
30 Oct 12
It might be deleted because of me, saying ... something about ... something ...
My point was that myLot will always be here for you as long as you are here for myLot!
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
Mylot has taken depth in your life. Such a beautiful and admiring thing. Writing indeed is not so much about money but it is more in the bond that is establish between writers. Once the bond is there , then it is hard to break and we call that as commitment.
