What kind of VAMPIRE are you? How to deal with Difficult People
By Metatronik
@Metatronik (6198)
Pasay, Philippines
October 30, 2012 11:04pm CST
I’ve attended the Feast last Sunday wherein it was discussed about the different kinds of vampires on how to deal with difficult people.
1. Criticizing Vampire – these are the Fault Finders or “Nitpickers”, so you have to be bewaring of people who are always looking for blackspots. He has need to make others small so he becomes big. The example being shown here was Adolf Hitler.
2. Controlling Vampire – the one who are the Bosses or Bullies
3. Contradicting Vampire – Pessimists or Dark Siders. These are the people who just want to talk for the sake that they are saying something. Another thing here is that when you are already giving the solution but then he doesn’t want to make it.
4. Complaining Vampire – Perennial Victims. It is their choice to have self pity
5. Clinging Vampire – Co-dependents or “Obsessed”
6. Crying Vampire – Heavy people or Sympathy seeker
7. Coward Vampire – Approval Addicts or “Yes Man” meaning that person always wants to please other people.
8. Con Vampire – Swindlers / Scammers/ Heartbreakers. Usually we became victims of these kind of people specially nowadays because of the technology.
So can you tell me your own experiences for being a vampire? Or how were you able to handle these kind of vampires?
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7 responses
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Am no vampire, and I don't think I belong to any of those vampires mentioned above. @Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
That is good that you were able to classify yourself that you are not one of the vampires that are mentioned above. More so you are lucky enough because you know how to deal with different kinds of vampires.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Well, not really There are times that I feel like they are really sucking my blood LoL Some people are really hard to understand, some are just plain impossible. Thanks for a wonderful post. I really want to print a copy and paste it on our office wall. 
There are times that I feel like they are really sucking my blood LoL Some people are really hard to understand, some are just plain impossible. Thanks for a wonderful post. I really want to print a copy and paste it on our office wall. 
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
1 Nov 12
It seems about half the types of social vampires you've listed are selfish and the other act that way due to various insecurities. The ones that are selfish I'd either distance myself from or straight tell them they're selfish and why. Maybe encourage them to change depending on the situation. As for the insecure vampires I'd depending on how bad it was. I'd either ignore the behavior or consider talking to them about it. They might not even realize their acting that way and appreciate you being honest with them.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
I also realized that there are types of vampire that I've encountered already and realized as well that they've already sucked my blood. Sometimes it can almost ruin your life. Worst case if they are part of your family, relatives or even friends.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
As we all know even Siamese vampires does not agree in one solution,as they argue with the solution of the other.Hardheadedness is really difficult to control and to even understanding them is quite a lot of thinking and discussions are made just to make them understand a certain solution.I am a vampire with many options to decide,and it is up to you to select which one is acceptable to you own taste.
If you do not like any selection,then you better go to another place with different people,that knows how to understand you,and let us see if they are just like me and the rest of the vampire,who are actually looking only for your own benefit but you ignore us all.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
It is really hard to deal with the hardheaded people that is why if I encounter this kind of people then let me see if how I am going to solve this kind of problem.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
31 Oct 12
great debate that stirs my many thoughts in me.
I do not know if I'm a vampire of the above mentioned because I'm pretty extroverted personalities frivolous and so I suffer.
I trust a lot of people around me and always look polozhetilnata side.
very interesting discussion.
the world around us and there are so many vampires but I think the worst are energy vampires because they take our strength and energy.
nice day!
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
Vampires are really challenging. This is now we should know how to deal with them and solve our problem towards them.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
Good to know that you were able to classify yourself of which you are there. And yeah the only chance is that you have to ignore them and leave them alone. I just don't like to have additional stress with that kind of people.
@Gretchen522 (714)
• China
31 Oct 12
It is an interesting description, each leave is different from the other, the same as people. There's no two people have the same character. We can make everyone satisfy but we can try to not hurt them.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
I got this from the feast that I am attending. That is why this is really interesting. At some point I am also guilty with some kinds of vampire. Now I realized it is then I would want to be more positive.
@chiwasaki (4695)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
Thanks to these classification, I really learned a lot. I think this can be shared in a forum or meeting with my colleagues, just good to know information.
I have encountered Crying Vampire that twisted stories just for them to get attention and sympaties. She is one of my co-employees before and one of my friend became a victim. I think her best strategy is to explain to everyone what really happened and not to rely on some twisted details.
