I got kicked out of a church forum for telling the truth!!!

@CODYMAC (1356)
San Diego, California
November 1, 2012 1:53pm CST
Hello to all of my myLot friends. I was invited to an LDS church website forum months ago, and I hardly interacted with it until just a few weeks back. My first post there was about how Obama has turned his back on the nation of Israel. That didnt go over well with them and they told me that It is a "church 'information' page". Not one for doctrine. The LDS church's official position on the election is that they will not tell the followers who to vote for. Yet, there is an LDS man running for the highest office. So I do not believe for one second that they are unbiased. I use to be LDS. When I was younger, I bought the whole, "The LDS church is going to save the nation when the constitution is hanging by a thread" speech. I actually heard that come out of the mouth of one of the higher ups of the church. I then asked my foster dad about it a few days later, and he confirmed it. He told me that the church would save the nation... Years later I was in a conversation with him and brought up the subject. He said that the church never made that claim. That he never said that to me. Well... At any rate, the post last night got me banned. It was about how evil Halloween is and that we need to be worried about what GOD says about the holiday. "Dont do what the nations do" "woe unto those who call good evil and evil good..." They didnt like it and kicked me out of the group. They told me that it was a group for ward information. I gave them the information about the truth of Halloween. Well, I guess that they would rather do whatever they want than listen to what GOD has to say... You know what really makes me upset about this? Is that they all came together and mocked me for even posting it. They didnt even bring up that the forum was for ward information, this time, they simply defended how wonderful it was for their children. I am now happy that they all received this "information". I am also sad that they kicked me out because now I am not able to give them any more "information" about what GOD wants his people to do... I would like your thoughts on this my friends...
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@franseman (516)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
How glad I am that I'm an atheist. These days everybody seems to know what that god person really means. Bush jr. even had a talk with god. Yeah right! For me life is simple as 1 + 1. Be good for the people you meet, be good for animals and plants and take good care of our planet.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
5 Nov 12
I agree that we are to love one another. That is the second of two commandments. I always try to follow it and I fail like every other human. But being atheist is something I was until I read a book called "Evidence That Demands A Verdict", by Josh McDowell. It is all about his experience being an atheist trial lawyer and... Well, you should read it. It changed my mind forever, and made me see things not only in religion and science, but in society and beyond.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
5 Nov 12
It would be the true you, not me, Kidding. But you are right, or left? Well either way, you are correct. We do need to search further. It is a never ending learning experience. The book is fantabulous.
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Well, I don't know the book although the name of the author does ring a bell. But from what you say I can already agree: look further!!!! And if we do, we will see that we only have to look at ourselves and our true "ME". Am I right? (no, I vote left. LOL)
@JohnRok1 (2051)
3 Nov 12
The LDS never could stand the truth.
@JohnRok1 (2051)
5 Nov 12
I should explain further about Andrew Price, before somebody claims the above is abuse. Andrew used to preach in Exhibition Road, Kensington, London, where the Mormon "Church Centre" is situated. They proceeded to take him to court, claiming he was disturbing their worship, and drummed up witnesses to say they heard him inside. Now, assuming these witnesses weren't simply lying, the only way this could have happened is if they had miked him in the street and beamed it out through speakers in the "Church Centre". So they won the case and ruinous damages.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
2 Nov 12
I understand how upsetting it would be to be kicked out of a forum, but as a forum facilitator, I understand how it could happen. Forums are set up for specific reasons and apparently your posts were not in line with the purposes of the forum. Also, realize that forums do not belong to the public. They belong to the organization, company or site that is supporting them, in this case, the LDS church. They have no obligation to allow others to post there, especially if those posts stir up the other posters and are not in line with their purposes.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
5 Nov 12
Correct peavey, correct. It was a church information forum and I posted something on halloween. Yet, they were wishing each other a happy halloween as I stated before. My post was just the opposite of what they were doing. Going outside the "ward info" was not unusual there. Many times they would post things other than things like I stated above. I am not justifying it, rather saying that I know that they did it out of spite, and not because of the "reason" they stated...
• Portugal
1 Nov 12
dont be sad cody. you know for me i think that talking about god isnt good. it always bring discussions. thats why i have my beliefs for myself and dont share it with anyone. i had a ex bf that we thought differently about god. for me god is important sure it is but i see god as a father. and when he said god was more important for him than myself i was hurt. because the way he talked you know? he could say that im the most important thing and that he thank god for putting me in his way. because god is like a father to all of us. the love for god is different than the one we have for a lover. so from that day we talked again about religion later on and we still disagree. because in his religion they always go to people in the street and share their religion like if you dont be on their religion what can happen. for me is like they want to force you to believe like them. i think we all are free to have our own beliefs. who believes in a lot of gods, who believes in god, who doesnt believe.. what matters for me is to be a good person and help those in need. and always be honest. thats the most important. i dont like when people try to make us feel like we are believing in a wrong thing. we should respect each other's beliefs and opinions. thats why i dont agree with them kicking you out. if that is a forum to talk about religion would be good that everyone respected the different opinions that exist. im sorry that they expelled you from the site but dont worry^^ you didnt do anything wrong so please dont be bothered by their attitude.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
9 Nov 12
Sweetloveforeve: I respectfully disagree with you. I believe that we should talk about God. It makes sense that discussions are the surest way to settle misunderstandings and to teach others about God. Your boyfriend was following God's commands. We are suppose to put God before all others. I tell my husband that in his eyes I should come second only to God. I believe that without God granting me such love and gifts, I would not have this man to share my life with, nor would I have been blessed with our children. For your boyfriend to say that you (or anything else) was more important than God would be wrong for any Christian to say or believe. The Bible also tells us to share our faith and the good news of Christ's love for us. You are correct in that God gives us the freedom to choose what we will believe. We are suppose to be gentle, kind, and respectful in sharing our beliefs. Christ Himself did not force people to believe Him,nor did He stay where He was not wanted. If you feel forced to believe as others do you have to ask yourself if it is because whoever is talking to you is truly forceful or whether you are feeling like something just isn't quite right with your faith. Codymac: I do not know of the forum you discussed, but from what I gather they expected that people would share general information and not get into religious discussions. I think it is strange that they would not expect beliefs to be shared in their forum. I am sorry you are bothered by the reaction to your post, but you must know that it is part of God's will and purpose. Under no circumstance is it acceptable to mock another person's beliefs and opinions, even when they are different from your own. I am sorry that those people disgraced you in such a manner. Don't let it bring or keep you down. Instead, let it be a building block in making you stronger. I agree with you on the subject of halloween. I do not participate in the "holiday". God told His followers that we would be persecuted for our belief in Him. You did the right thing by speaking out against what you know to be wrong, but you have to let it go now. You can not force others to accept your beliefs even if we know they are biblically based truths. Our job as Christians is to spread God's word and live as positive examples of Christ's character. We can only plant a seed. After that, it is up to the other person to choose whether he or sh will accept God and follow Him. I, too have grave concerns about Obama's reelection, but I also know that it is in God's plan. We are not capable of understanding everything God does, but we do know that it works for a divine purpose in His plan. All we can do now is hit our knees and pray that God will guide the decisions of all of our government leaders. Respect entails a lot more than feeling admiration for another person. You can respect the opinions of other people without admiring the person or their attitude. The Bible tells us that we are suppose to love ALL people. It is not easy to do, but we must. Respecting someone's right to choose how they believe is not the same as saying that their choice is correct anymore than respecting their right to believe something is the same as saying that a belief is a correct one. I hope you find another discussion forum where your beliefs will be accepted and respected. If at any time you wish to discuss the Word of God, please feel free to contact me on mylot. In the meantime, may God continue to bless you and keep you firmly on the path He has chosen for you to take.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
5 Nov 12
Thank you sweetloveforeve. I am happy to know that you agree that they should not have kicked me out. They never said anything about my post not being "information for the ward" they just ganged up on me and mocked me. They were wishing everyone in the forum a "happy halloween" so I posted something on halloween. For that, thanks. I am happy you are on my side. I do have respect for things that pertain to truth. If I say I have respect for someones religion it means that it is ok. But to me it is not ok to see others living a lie. We now live in a society where it is better to be anything BUT a Christian. We have a president who would rather crucify a Christian than bring this nation together. His reelection will mean serious problems for those of us who are believers. Just you wait and see. I am not a prophet but I predict that by the time he leaves office, this world will be a much worse place. Not just here in America, sweetloveforeve, but the whole world. And much worse for believers. He is going to go down in history as the president who killed the constitution. And the constitution was built off of a belief that all men were created equal, and given rights that no man can take away. But our president does not see it that way. He sees is as a changing document. And that means no freedoms when it comes to my beliefs. Now, if tolerating another's belief is what you are meaning, then that is different than respecting it. I can tolerate my brother's wife who is annoying, but I do not respect her, because respecting means to feel a deep admiration. And no, I do not admire her annoying attitude at all.
@Fatcat44 (1141)
• United States
2 Nov 12
There is so much trolling these days. When a forum is set up for a particular reason, and people start coming on the site and doing other stuff, they have to maintain control. Which in this case, is to kick off anyone who does not stay within the boundaries for that forum. It was nothing personal, just maintaining control of the site. Site can be hijacked very easily.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
9 Nov 12
Codymac: The encouragement to vote for a specific candidate and to name another as one not to vote for is probably what got you kicked out of the forum. Once you name names, you are leaving the religious realm and moving into the political one, which is frowned upon by both arenas. Preachers will not generally encourage their congregation to vote for a specific candidate. Even Billy Graham left political encouragements to simply say "vote your convictions". It goes against people's perception of keeping the church and state separated to tell people who to vote for. By your own admission, that halloween thing was the second "offense" you comitted in the forum.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Nov 12
So much for freedom of speach there. have a great day.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
2 Nov 12
An online forum is not a public platform so there is no "freedom of speech" problem.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
5 Nov 12
I agree that we have lost our freedom of speech, because of our president. @peavey, you are correct in that it is not a public forum. Information of this kind was not to discuss beliefs, but to simply give them facts about something everyone in the forum was doing. They were wishing everyone a happy halloween, that didnt pertain to "ward information". So I saw nothing wrong with my post. They see "ward info" as, "I need a ride to the store, can anyone help out...'
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Jan 13
Sometimes, people are treating in a way you want it to be. Being true to yourself can hurt somebody. That's the reason maybe they don't want you to be a member on their group. Well, we have a freedom of speech but they have also control to banned or removed you from their forum. Don't be bother about them. Be continue sharing your ideas to others rather than those narrow minded people.