Every living person has problems

China
November 1, 2012 10:21pm CST
what is the secret ingredient of tough people that enables them to succeed? i think the answer is very simple,it's all in how they perceive their problems.yes, every living person has problems. a problem--free life is an illusion--a mirage in the desert.acccept that fact! Life has its ups and downs.problems do end,they are all resolved in time!
9 responses
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
I am not a tough person but I am trying to be tough because it what most of us needs to do. Succeeding in life comes to all individuals regardless is he or she is tough or not, they only differs in how they will handle the situation. Of course, the tough person will be the one to win and the weak will instantly fail. If you don't have a problem, you are not a normal person. The most important in carrying a problem are acceptance, positiveness, and the cope to carry on. The secret of tough person is braveness - braveness to stand on their ideals and decisions. They have this straightforward attitude that one can't blow down. Being strong in every problem is being successful in all aspects of life.
• China
2 Nov 12
thanks for your reply. No matter what happens,should smile to the face of the world?
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
2 Nov 12
Those who are succesful have goals set in their lives. They are fighters, survivors, strong people plus they do believe in their own power. I agree many living persons (including children!) have problems but it's not that easy to perceive problems in the right way. You need life experience for that, which children seldom have but will gather especially if they have a dangerous/violent/lonesome childhood. Fantasy, dreams, keep people alive plus fighting for something better, just like goals do. It's not an illusion at all. An illusion can be ignored, the only thing that counts is the end result! So set your own goals for what you want for you in your life! Ignore the downs keep focused on the ups and remember them!
• China
2 Nov 12
thanks for your reply. have a good day!
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 12
I think we the humans are the creators of our problems. Our heart and mind is the mastermind here that decides and determines our futuristic events and influence our decision making. It will be a lot easier if we can train ourselves to look at the half full of a glass instead of pondering around its emptiness. Most of the time positive approach works with less tension and stress. Well, like I said, it works most of the time not always. Different sorts of problem needs to be tackled with different approach. So, it is advisable to seek help from the wise ones prior opting to any trouble shooting method.
• China
2 Nov 12
thanks for your reply. every problem has a lifespan,no problem is permanent.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
For a person to succeed, he must have the perseverance to do anything and everything just to be able to achieve his goal. We should not stop moving forward if we seem to stumble. We should take each stumble as a lesson and should be our strength to be able to move on.
• China
2 Nov 12
thanks for your reply! Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
hi, yes,its true that problem is always in our life and we will encounter them maybe everyday,life will not be perfect if we never encounter them,because problems in our life can be use our knowledge to learn and to be success in our dreams,the thing we need to do is to face all our problems in our life.
• China
2 Nov 12
"problem arising"-"problem solved"-"problem arising",it is like a circle with endless.Life would be no interesting without problems. while the wise man will look into the problems carefully and summarize into theories, and the great man will do preparation to avoid the same problem happens again. No matter who suffered the problems,the wise man would make those experience as their owns.
• China
2 Nov 12
thanks for your reply. Experience in life is precious wealth.
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
2 Nov 12
I agree with u - problems will be resolved in time. Maybe the best thing to do is to remain confident and keep hoping. The worst scenario is to give up or lose your will power. As the saying goes - where there is a will there is a way. It is also a good idea to bear in mind that eveybody has his/her particular problems. Nobody has lived a life without any problems. So we may find solace in the fact that we are not alone.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
2 Nov 12
Of course it is.I would consider that only those problems where I would die,is a real problem to me.Other than that,every other problem always has a solution when we think and act with patience.If we get tensed and stressed up to face a problem,we would end up giving lower than our best to tackle them.Yogis say that daily meditation would clear up the mind and make us think clearly and thus facing every problem in life would be easy.
@auwielady (116)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Tough people are not fearless and strong. Tough people just know how to handle their fears and face them all. And they are also not that strong, they just know how to choose their battles. Yes, indeed, life has its ups and downs, but a positive attitude, a smile and, a big faith to the Lord above are the keys toward overcoming all those problems which life has to give. :)