Change my thinking....

@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
November 6, 2012 10:22pm CST
Sometime i am too tired of this life and i have negative thinking, i feel that i am the most alone and unlucky person in this world. But today, i should have to change my thinking whenever i am upset or tired or have negative thinking... I just read a news about a kid who is 6 years old and live alone on a mountain in china. His parents died because of HIV. Every month he receives 70 CNY, from the older woman who is a government officer. He cooks, care himself, cares a dog, goes to a forest to get wood for cooking, ... No parent's kid want he goes to a class since they scare HIV then he just stay at home and learn himself. I admire him a lot. He is so strong and brave!!!
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11 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 Nov 12
yeah sometimes we should see another people experienced and we know that we are luckier than another person.. i think not only you should change mind.. me too..and everyone which read your post should changes mind..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 Nov 12
yeah ryanong me too thanks for informing and giving the good story.. it will us aware that God had created us with several situations so we can learn again and again.. sometimes we forgot but God is fair..He gives us the good example in our surrounding..
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
yeah, you are right, God is fair...so that we just try our best to live in happiness .. Invite me a cup of coffee adhyz and starting a new nice day now....
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
yeah. you are right....right now instead of blaming, i will think positive and try to pass any problems that i get...
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
7 Nov 12
Wow, that kid is so admirable! I sure hope he doesn't get infected, he's so young and he might be ale to make something out of himself given his determination and will. I hope more people will notice his sad plight and help him out and give him a chance for a better life.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 Nov 12
your story is very touching my heart it makes me cry like when the girl leave me..LOL
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
Yes, i hope so, i hope he can go to school and study as others kids.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
huh? what are you thinking adhyz? it is totally different with a situation when a girl leaving you...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
I admire the kid's courage at such a young age! But I hope that the people would be properly educated about HIV so we can avoid discriminating people who has them. Does the kid also have HIV? If he is not infected with the same virus, the more that he needs to be living a normal life.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
No information to tell that a kid got hiv. but i don't think he got it since he looks so healthy in many pictures. Yes, you are right, HIV is not so scary like people think, we can live together with people who got HIV also. He is so strong!!! 6 years old and lives alone to care himself.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
I see...but shouldn't the government help this poor kid? I mean, living all alone at that age could be a bit scary. He is not old enough to make food judgments. He should either stay with a relative or should be taken in by a social welfare.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
I don't know...he receives a little bit money every month. people may visit him sometime but no one adopts him yet since he lives on a mountain alone. He looks so cute
• China
8 Nov 12
I just had searched this news and read it carefully,I feel ashamed that as a Chinese I do not know about this news before,the boy is really a strong man,and it is pity that this kid have confirm infected the HIV virus and there is no school willing to accept him as a student,now there are many people offer some materials and money to him but what he really need is how to cure this disease and go to school. Really wish he can have a good future just as the same kids who in the same age with him.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 12
ryanong, i can see many the good example like your stories in my country in several isolated place, there are good hearted man which never complaint the situation they makes us shy when we are too many complaint our situation to God..
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
12 Nov 12
yeah, we should change our mind...hihihi...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
yeah, i agree with you opinion. He is a kid and he has a right to go to school and live with his age. Poor him! and we can see how strong he is. I really hope he can get a good future later also. God blesses him.
• Indonesia
11 Nov 12
yeah, everyone of us have problems, but noone should say that he/she is the most unlucky person, everyone have problems which maybe made them consider they to be so unlucky to have those problems but then again everyone have a problem. The case of Chinese boy who you have mentioned for the example is made us ashamed that we are complaining about our problems which even not as big as his. He's so strong and I admired it while even myself complaining about my small problems which cannot be compared to this kid's problem. it reminds me that we should always thankful for our life even with problems which we have because our problems there to make we are growing stronger and made us to be a better character and life is a blessing no matter how hard it is.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
12 Nov 12
oh my ...i don't know which one i wrote is not clear then you guys have misunderstanding in here, I didn't say he is the most unlucky person. hix..hix... yeah, you are right, he is very strong and i feel ashamed in front him since i did blame and think negative with problems in this life that is not very huge. I admire him.
@Mattxu (62)
• China
8 Nov 12
In this world, I feel that no one has the qualification to say that he is the most alone and unlucky person. Each person has his own annoyance and pain, and even no one could help him. He could only ask help from himself. There are many people in the world that we should learn from. And I am a Chinese citizen. I am so pride for the little Chinese kid. By the way, I should send my warmest congratulations on your and Obama's success.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
NO, i didn't say he is the most alone and unlucky person. It is my feeling whenever i am upset or tired of this life. But after reading his story, i should change my thinking since he is a little kid but he is so strong and brave. I might not be so as strong as him if i were in his shoes at that age.
• India
7 Nov 12
I really feel that we people are bit lucky in this world . I feel so because we have money to meet our needs, money to meet our hunger and a good house to have shelter. There are many ones who lack them. Their situations is really tough and cursed when we compare ours life with them.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
yeah, it is not fair for him since he is only 6 years old but overall he pasts all problems that he has to face in this life and live strongly. I never have an imagine that a small boy could live alone and care himself, but he is...
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
everyone of us have difficulties in life and things that we felt frustrated upon or even scary things we thought would destruct us and we cannot overcome the pain or failure. those are the fruits of negative thinking. it cannot be avoided that sometimes in our lives we can feel alike things that make us shiver. but then you are right, we must change this concept or this kind of feeling because in life, we were being given lots of designs or different roles to play to distinguish ourselves from the rest. and that whatever problems we encountered along the way, let us face it boldly as we dedicate this all to God. for He is the creator and the provider to what we all needed in life ") thanks
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
yeah, i think so after reading about his situation. he is a small kid but he is so strong like that. I admire him a lot, and right now i will take everything easy, just try to be brave and pass any problem that we have to face to.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
I feel bad for the child. Do you have any idea that there is an orphanage in China to take care the child? Every children has the right to be treated well and should give his needs. Somebody must adopt him for his sake. I felt pity for him.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Nov 12
Yes, i have the same feeling but he is so strong and live himself. he lives on a mountain, and i think people living around maybe poor also. Overall i admire him a lot.
@Magz1989 (271)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Yeah...we should always be positive no matter how harsh our life is....i also felt what have you felt..i really think that God had Forsaken me for all the trials i have but then when i discover that i am pregnant..i said that my life doesn't belong to me anymore . there's a life inside me...trials will mold as as what we are so we must be strong....for that's the spices of life.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
i am happy for you. I can feel your feeling now since you will be a mother soon. Take care yourself and care a baby. Good blesses both of you.
• China
8 Nov 12
It is a very good multivation when you feel in deep depressed, for everyday there are thousands of unfairly and terribly tragedies around us. We have no reson to get tired of feel meaningless about our life. Maybe on the other corner of this world, more severed or intolerable catasthophies are falling upon someone else. After reading or hearing thousands of sadness, we may feel we have lived better. Sometimes comparisom with the inferior can be a remedy and you will never cry on the tired, the unfaired and the meaningless.... So you have no right to stay in such a bad mood!!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
Yeah, you are right...there are thousands of unfairly and terribly tragedies around us. so that we should think positive and move forward even though we have to face any problem in this life... Thank you for your advices. I wish you a nice day1