Do you feel frustrated over of something?

@Shavkat (136111)
Philippines
November 7, 2012 3:43am CST
We feel so frustrated if we can not find answer of something. Some people just simply kept silent, they don't want to go along with arguments. Then the seeker of answer will frustrated.
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29 responses
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
We can't forced anyone to answer if they don't want too or we cant forced things to happened based on what we want. Though most of the time if i need answer i just solve it on my own but if others don't want to give their share then i will just leave it behind at least i tried to ask and go on with my life.
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@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I agree, we just need to be civilized after suggesting to listen and make conversation with somebody.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
A pleasant day Shavkat, With regard to your query, I was once trapped in a situation wherein I really feel frustrated. That is when my family turn their back to me when I needed them for the support in establishing my business.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's really not a good thing to hear about. The family refused to give a hand. I hope it would not be the reason to continue your dream to have the business. Thanks
• United States
8 Nov 12
I try to answer questions people ask me unless they have pi$$ed me off earlier. I do get frustrated but I usually don't ask any questions when I'm in that state.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
We need to cool it down, then have an attempt to ask about the concerns. But if it not possible, we just need to accept and let it be. Thanks
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• Pamplona, Spain
7 Nov 12
Hiya shavkat, Good question. I find the more I get frustrated with one problem in particular and have tried to get this across to the offending people the worse they get or they just shut themselves off altogether or are too sarcastic. Protection I suppose for themselves and again although they have brought the problem to the house they do not want to deal with it when things go wrong. Grrr., feel like giving up? Not a chance I am proving to be far stronger than they are although I do not know what benefit it brings me but I am learning in giant steps. Frustrated yes but not forever nothing in this World is worth all that bother.xxx
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
It is worth a try to find the answer, I agree on your statement that it is frustrating. In my opinion, it is their lost atleast I had offered to resolve if there is an issue. Thanks
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
It is really frustrating when there is something that needs to be answered yet it cannot be answered because of one reason or another. As for me, when that happens, i would rather talk with the person even to the point of having an argument so that my question would be answered at the soonest and i wouldn't be tortured in thinking for days for the reason behind it.
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@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's a nice move, even can not conceal myself for not feeling contented. That is, to know the answer.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
7 Nov 12
yes people are like that, they get irritated if they are not finding any answers. They can't take the defeat ,they get frustrated. But some are really good in handling those defeats,they never go for arguments, and some times the opposite may even get irritated by seeing them such cool.
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@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
There is no other way but to wait for the answer. Thanks
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Sometimes there are those feelings that makes you feel frustrated because you are not able to do something about what you are faced with. Anyway.. actually most of the frustrations are brought about by set expectations we have of others that we are unable to control.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's a good thing to know, there is no way the world could be perfect. Thanks
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
8 Nov 12
Hi shavkat, i agree with what you say. Sometimes i just feel frustrated when i cannot find the answer. Or i also get frustrated when i am unable to do what i have planned to do or there are certain circumstances which does not allow me to perform which i want to do. when we feel frustrated, there are many ways one will react to it. Some people like you say will simply just keep quiet and swallow their frustration. Where else, there are other who make known to the whole world that they are furstrated and people ahve to give way to them.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's a nice statement to say, compromising for such situation. Thanks
8 Nov 12
Yes, I feel frustrated sometimes when I really feel bad for something. But let me help you to go lighter side out of it. Try to be calm and relax such as listening to music that will help you to relax for awhile. What else? hmmmm eat some of your favorite food that you will almost forgot your frustrated. Ok have a nice day.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I like the idea. Thanks for sharing
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
8 Nov 12
Yes sometimes it is hard to cope with this kind of situation. I know someone who is like that and whenever this happens I just go along with his silent style by going silent myself. But deep inside it makes me angry and wanna just scream. However, when I think of it, it is not worth it to stress about it.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I agree, we just need to let go. Thanks
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Yes, you are right! I already experienced that before and I always asking myself, what did I done wrong that made him like that as if I am not existed and he's becoming cold. I did not do anything but to cry for the thought that one day he might run away and left me so miserable.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's a unbearable to think and be left behind by someone. We need to feel secured and be exclusive to a certain relationship. Thanks
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's happen to me and hubby. There were just times when we argued hard over something and it's me who usually demand answer and when hubby don't talked I got too frustrated of not getting what I want. What would I do it think of things that would make hubby spill it out. So childish... but when I get what I wanted... it's relieving and satisfying even though it was hurting. :((
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's a relief, but then as they said, we need to compromise too. Thanks
• Vietnam
8 Nov 12
That is not perfectly true. The life is very interesting. Each person has private characteristic, having persons want to know exactly everything around, others are not interested in at all, so they do not seek answer for arguments.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
The trials we experienced is a gift from God. There is no perfect world, we face the challenges with confident enough to get through it. It may look so difficult, but I am sure there is always a way to resolve it. Would you agree?
8 Nov 12
Being human , we always worried about certain thing in life.Which is quite natural.As we all got a brain which, changes with situation always as per natures law. After a certain degree when we try our best to solve any complex issues in our life and when its not in our hand , our brain goes blank.Means we lack understanding of situation.Frequent try when leads to failure , their only frustration comes. Sometime its better to leave the situation with time as, they say time is the best healer of all wounds in life.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
For some people, they misunderstood the things of what they hear from others. In fact, it was a good intention to show their concerns. This can be possible if a person is narrow-minded, in the long run they will understand it eventually. Thanks
@rusty2rusty (6751)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Nov 12
I do not feel frustrated over anything at the moment. But there are times that I get very frustrated. With four people living in this little trailer, than my oldest boy moved in. Things have gotten complicated since he sleeps on the couch. There is no room and no storage place. So, til I get a bigger place. I will get frustrated over little things, most I just hold in because in opinion it is not worth it to say anything. I know eventually I will get my couch back and my son will have his own home. I just keep telling myself that.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
For the sake of the family matters, we really need to deal with it. I am sure that your son will find a way to have his own footsteps. Thanks for sharing
@clrumfelt (5490)
• United States
8 Nov 12
It is frustrating when you make a post and others don't answer or stop the debate earlier than you wanted. I tend to stop visiting discussions when people get too heated or rude in their responses.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I totally agree. What's the use implicating something if there is no answer.
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• United States
7 Nov 12
I try not to get frustrated with some things but its hard to do sometimes. I keep a lot of stuff inside but too many times I let it out with anger and it causes more problems. I don't argue just to argue but if I think my point needs to be made then I find myself putting more passion into my argument.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I got the point, id I really wanted to resolve the concerns bothering me. I will really need to persuade the person involved. Thanks
@lizlee (208)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hi there! Yes, sometimes I feel frustrated over something, especially over things that I can't do anything about. You know the feeling that you are so helpless but you can't do anything about it. But then again, I let it go, cause the more I think about it, the more I will frustrated. I would just simply say....Oh life! :)
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
That's a good thing to ignore. Thanks
• Malaysia
8 Nov 12
i always feel frustrated cuz .........
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Thanks for the answer.
@ferdsie (12)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
This is quite true. This usually happens if a person doesn't have the courage to deal with the argument. If he feel that he's overpowered by someone else, then he will be frustrated and will keep quiet about it.
@Shavkat (136111)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I agree, but there is always no reason to choose in silence. Thanks for sharing