Respect mens freedom to socialize with friends.
By iMamom
@iMamom (321)
Philippines
November 7, 2012 10:44pm CST
Don't Be jealous when your men goes out with his Mates/friends, Men wants to have freedom as well. Guys has their own Boys thing, They usually talk about their women and about anything that women doesn't have to know.
5 responses
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
9 Nov 12
That goes both ways. I've dated three guys who get incredibly jealous when I go out without him. He asks all kinds of detailed questions about who was there and how I got home. Sometimes he'll say things to try and fish around for information. Women also talk about things that are not for guys to know. Also some of it guys would not care to know.
@iMamom (321)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Sometimes I want to make my man jealous, when he is upset i get an assurance that he cares, its the same with guys.They pretend that there interested with someone or girls,women or a sexy model etc likes him, it has nothing to do with his desire towards them. He wants to know as well how you feel, they want assurance as well.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
Jealousy is normal in every relationship, even with friendship.
But yes, we must respect each other and giving the other freedom to do their thing is not bad at all as long as they/we know the limitations.
I am also a married woman and I hang out with my friends.
It is because my partner knows my friends and trusted them.
Same thing with our partner- as long as you know who are his friends and whom he hangs out with- there is nothing to worry about.
Trust and faith makes a relationship lasts.
@iMamom (321)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
TRUST and FREEDOM is 2 of the things we need to have in a long lasting relationship. Not bad at all friends.
Men wont look for another women if they see their woman as all they want to have, they tend to compare us to anyone they met along the way.
So be confident and trust your man.
Happy mylotting... :) thanks for sharing.
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Yeah, I figured! But I guess, women just couldn't control themselves to get jealous sometimes. They fear of losing their partner not because their partner might be that weak to stay away from temptation, but maybe because their partner's friends might just push his partner to be tempted.
@Bluebell18 (636)
• United States
9 Nov 12
Wow, I thought I was the only one that felt that way. Throughout the course of our relationship for over a year, my boyfriend and I have had some major rifts. We took it out on each other and the smallest thing we said to each other we erupt. The more we bicker and argue, the more energy it takes out of us and we are meek. Part of that stems basically too, because we rarely see each other. He has a passion for bowling and I find the sport, dull as you know what, and it takes a lot out of him. Sometimes I think that my jealous behavior causes me to act out and then I pick fights with him. It's a slow process, and in order for us to move on, we have to put away our petty feelings and focus more on what we had in the beginning; love for each other. So, I can't be mad at him for having a life and I kind of don't.
