shud a gal b da 1st one 2 propose while starting a relationship??

@tamrox (39)
India
September 4, 2006 11:23pm CST
or.. sh shud wait 4 da guy to start it off
20 responses
@amiksinha (1961)
• India
5 Sep 06
It depends on the country also.. becoz in a country like india or pakistan still girls are bit shy and dont agree to propose first. They wait fot the guy to turn.. so who ever feel first towards inclination, they should come forward.. no hard and fast rule
5 Sep 06
black2da-bone
Actually it has to do with what u believe and how u see it. if the guy is not forthcoming in asking u out then u might be only living in assumptions, so it will be gud if u ask to know ur fate... but our esteem and self-respect demands that allow the guy plead, beg and ask... pls will u be my gal or... pls would marry me... it's more honourable.... JEROME
5 Sep 06
Well, i always believe should be the guys to propose first..;) kl, www.v-rewards.com Rewards N More!
• India
5 Sep 06
i feel it'll be better to start a good relationship.... it sure has a good effect on the guy if a girl proposes
• India
5 Sep 06
my dear, let me clear u one thing.every person on this earth has its own feelings. some are ur friends& some ur enemy. so it's up 2 u that how u judge the person.. if u feel that he is made for u, go ahead, test him....&then propose him
• Israel
5 Sep 06
It don'st really matters if a girl or a boy should sart it,all that matters is LOVE.
5 Sep 06
neverrrr!!!! always wait for the guy. call me old fashioned but that's my stand :) hard to get is still in for me :)
• Nigeria
5 Sep 06
anyonme can do it, now no one waits for anybody again before propsing
@y2ksuprio (855)
• India
5 Sep 06
i think it can be anyone ? it depends on the boy or gal who proper frank, not too shy.many boy or gal affriad to propose at frist ,they think if something goes wrong it will be all over,but dont think like this? if u have something in mind go and tell her/him.
• Nigeria
5 Sep 06
as far as i am concern, i think if a gal should fall in love with a guy i see no reason she is waiting for the gal to propose first, what if the gal doesn't think of her first or thinking she might have someone in her life. so once opportunity is loss it can never be regain that is if the guy fall in love with another gal before the lady propose
• India
5 Sep 06
It happend in my life. But it jus continued for two years, due to some unavoidable circumstances i have to sacrifice her to some one else.She proposed me fist.
5 Sep 06
if your love is really the kind of a volcano burstin inside of you then whoever thinks that he/she is in love should go propose to the other person.. you dont get much chances in life thats why you should not blow one.love is to reveal and does not matter if its the girl or the boy to do it in todays world. take care buddy..
• India
5 Sep 06
No necessary Most Of the Time Girls 1st fall in Love.
@hammo1 (87)
5 Sep 06
It doesn't matter who starts it. As a matter of fact, guys love the idea of a girl asking them out. No harm in it is there? Grab the bull by the horns and go for it!!!!!
@noorasie (686)
• Pakistan
5 Sep 06
It's not a Rule.Both sides have the liberty to propose. In some part of world, girls don't have such liberty but it should be. The have the right to select her life partner and propose her. Since she has her own life and should have right to propose a persone she thinks will be bette for her as a life partner. However, it doesn't mean that she should not consult with any one. In my personal opinion, eigther girl or boy should consult his or her elders, friends and welwishers well before proposig some one becuase some time, one can be mistaken.
@bhchy1 (6050)
• United States
5 Sep 06
Have you considred taking a course in writing? Save the computer speak for your friends and type like an adult so we can all understand what you have to say. There are many here who primary language is not English.
@maryannemax (12168)
• Sweden
5 Sep 06
well, if you feel like you don't wanna lose him in your life and that you love that person so much, you better get enough strength to tell him how you really feel. don't let one opportunity just pass you by because you've been to scared to tell the truth.
@Duvessa (913)
• United States
5 Sep 06
what are you talking about? this question does not even make any sense. Are you talking about proposing marriage? If so then why would anyone propose at the start of a relationship? That's just stupid.
@rnj_786 (13)
• India
5 Sep 06
no i dont think so it can be anyone to start .
@krishna183 (2286)
• India
5 Sep 06
whether it should be or not .. lemme tell you .. its not gonna happen in a long long time .. personally i feel it should be the guy