Older or Younger than YOU?

I haven't been in a relationship with anyone a lot younger than me. I have though dated a man who was a lot older than me. The relationship didn't work out but we are still good friends. He is now married with a child and I'm married with a child. In fact our children like to be around each other.

Hi! I'm actually married to a younger man. He's 3 years younger than me. Not much but still younger. Gone are the days that it should be men that are older than their partners. But still some culture, country or individual still like that men are older than women in terms of relationship. I don't have anything against it or anything. It's just how things work for them. I used to date older guys than me. Not too much older, about 2 years older than me. I also did date a guy who's my age. Both of which didn't work out well for me. Obviously since I'm happily married now to my husband. :) All I'm saying is that, when it comes to matters concerning our feeling and heart, there's always just 2 things : it's either you go for it, break rules, be free. Or you could stick to what you think ways should be.

I had a relationship with someone who was my age, we still had different views, though, we liked different things, we were different with what we wanted to do, what our views and he sort of pushed me to always attend church service, and my mother does not like him and i eventually felt suffocated with the kind of love he gives me. I also had a relationship with someone younger than me... but then it all went sour when he probably is not mature enough to be ready to settle down... he was a liar, a cheating one too... who probably lied to me half of our relationship years. And i have someone who is older than me as well and so far i think it was a good one... though we have a lot of differences as well, and he can be stubborn... well i think he tries to understand me more too and he is always thinking of what can be done to resolve issues and we do talk about everything we should be talking about to settle our differences. It should actually depend on the person too. older, same age or younger... it can have its benefits, pros and cons... but it depends on the person, the couple to work things out no matter how great the differences of the couples are when they compromise, love each other and work things out, they should be able to live their lives together as couples wonderfully.

My partner is a lot younger than me and I always feel the insecurities over this relationship. My partner though does not feel awkward with the age difference since he looks old for his age and I look young for my age; however, I have lots of misgivings because I know that sooner or later age will be the determining factor. The relationship though has been going fine for 5 years and looks like we may still last a few years more perhaps until he finds someone closer to his age. I have since then accepted that someday, he may be tempted to find someone younger. Our society frowns on a relationship where the woman is older than a man because traditionally it should be the opposite. Our friends though have accepted this relationship since the start and don't find anything wrong. I just don't know what the future brings but meanwhile I just have to hope for the best.

I have never been in a relationship with a woman older than me. I always preferred younger woman. At present my wife is more than 20 years younger than me and we now have 2 children, a girl and a boy. Have a nice weekends. Ciao!