Friends are for ever
By moneyham
@moneyham (201)
India
5 responses
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
13 Nov 12
I have a similar problem. Often, I am the person who supports others, but don't always allow people to support me when I have a problem because I like to be self-sufficient. However, it would be nice to have a real best friend.
I feel that in order to do this, I will have to find someone really trustworthy and also take some risks emotionally. But it can happen.
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
20 Nov 12
What do you do when you have personal problems?
For me, I like making my own decisions, but sometimes I feel nervous about the decisions I'm making. It'd be nice if someone knew me very well and could give me some wise advice every now and then.
@drkraven (521)
• Romania
12 Nov 12
ofcourse is wrong not to have any close friends at any age... usually there are certain times in life when you make friends... time passing, some connection are lost but some last for a long time or forever.
But do not despair, you can make friends at any age...
@drkraven (521)
• Romania
13 Nov 12
So you say you pray alot. Pray for your selfishness to go away. Actually start doing something about that since it won t go away by magic. It s pretty hard to have long term friendships if you re a selfish person. But don t try to hard, it should be something at a "natural" speed. GL
@marguicha (216305)
• Chile
13 Nov 12
Having friends and keeping friends is a difficult task. But I`m sure that friendship, as all types of love, is a two way path. You cannot wait until someone comes to you and gives you all, support and guidance if you don`t start by doing that with someone else.
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
No, you're not travelling in a wrong way maybe God prepares a person for you that would understand you and the one who is trusted and accept who you are. God considers also as best friend, you can talk to him through praying and all of your problems will swept away ! Just believe my friend ! :)
@moneyham (201)
• India
13 Nov 12
This is really an inspiring reply. Thanks mate. Yes as you said, i am very well believed in God. I seek always almighty's advise. I really don't know how many times i pray daily. When ever i get time, even during travelling and during my break time i used to pray. I will continue to be in relationship with him.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 Nov 12
Yes you are if this is real. Everybody can find someone to support him/her or advice him/her. Especially now when you have internet. You can search, you can join a forum or more, you can ask over here. You can go out in real life and join. If it comes to making friends you should ask yourself first what your definition for a friend is. This is not enough! You should also ask yourself how willing you are to invest in someone else. If it comes to that most people are not. I met people over here who claimed they wanted a pen pall. I did add them they only wrote me once or twice and told me they are too busy. Sorry but if you are so bored or lazy to invest in someone you should not complain. Nor should you if someone does give you a good advice. Examn yourself first, next step is keep your eyes open since the good friends, those who are willing to advice you/help you out are most of the times right in front of you.
@moneyham (201)
• India
13 Nov 12
To be honest haven't got a chance to met a real friend yet. Most of them wanted to be be in relationship just for time pass. Some need expensive gifts. If it is your subordinate in your office they will pretend to be in a relationship to make use of your position. Am i correct?
