It's good mylot is here.. better type here than shouting it all out!

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
November 13, 2012 7:00pm CST
I have experienced one of the best advantages of being in mylot these days. I have decided to just blurt out my bad vibes here instead of shouting it all out in the real world. I think it's best and it's therapeutic. I have said some things online that I wouldn't have been proud to say so in the face of some people (yet for the moment, it seemed justified). But have seen that it's actually more beneficial to talk about it online (mylot) rather than in person. It has helped my relationship to be better without the needs for strains. Relationships are better because no bad word has been said, at the same time I'm calmer because I have dumped all my bad thoughts in mylot - I apologize to those who had to read. So, I guess it pays to be active in these sites. At least, relationships are better and stress isn't kept inside the system (body). What do you think?
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8 responses
• United States
14 Nov 12
Laydee, this is a better outlet than shouting at someone in person. (It leads to violence or worse) In light of that, there have been times that I got into a heated discussion where I almost lost my head...but, this is a site for everyone to be themselves and state their opinions. Just as long as you keep it civil.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
True. There should always be respect and people should still be civil even under the internet. However, I guess as parents or "mature" people, we should educate our kids to know internet etiquette as well. Seem to me a lot of teens these days are just spilling their beans without holding back any information or foul words. We could use these mediums (internet) as an outlet, as you said, but we should always remember to still be civil. Thanks for the response, have a great mylot experience ahead!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Hi Laydee, i am also guilty of this.. i tend to pour out what i feel good or bad here in mylot.. well i am sorry too for doing it but it has been kind of good for me too.. therapeutic in a way.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I know that to some point, it's not really healthy to be ranting everything out in the open on the internet, but I guess given that we don't spill out vital information about ourselves and the people we're angry on, then perhaps that's a little bit healthier - or therapeutic. ehehe.. I know that it's therapeutic for me to type. I love the sound of keyboard typing, it soothes my stressed mind. Thanks for the response, have a great mylot experience ahead!
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Hello Laydee, Yes you can actually release your stress here but with out saying any foul words about it though. well, if it's too embarassing you don't have to say it because everything we write here could come back to us if our friends outside gets to see this place. sometimes it's nice to rant but if it's a secret better keep it to yourself.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
14 Nov 12
for me this site is very pleasant here relaxing and I enjoy the opportunity to earn extra money. I'm also glad when I can sit down and write here because it is soothing and relaxing a bit and relaxed the tension. nice day!
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
14 Nov 12
hello friend, don't be sorry for making us read it out. May be it is good that you put it here because here people will just ignore your words right away and move on to the next post, but then, in real life, the more you shout, the more you will have to face a lot of strained relationships from all the sides. So, you are most welcome to shed it all here on mylot, but then, I would advise you to still keep yourself calmer because, it is always good for your health to not get angry with things that happen in your surroundings. Try to meditate and learn to take the things the way they come to you. Then slowly you will learn to smile at all the things that you feel frustrating now.
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 12
Therapeutic is because the people in here try their best to give neutral and solid posts.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
As I would say it, Mylot is my stress reliever and online sanctuary. I have my time alone and be just myself. We let your emotions flow through writing and it has become therapeutic in a way, too. Much better to be "guided" by our virtual friends before even thinking of possible hurting words to say to those persons in your life. So, Mylot could also be called as an "online feelings sifter". Well, I am just making up these descriptions for Mylot. But that is how I feel about it.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
14 Nov 12
Being a group and friends to one another, I think we are here to help each other. You don't have to feel sorry that you have shared not so good experiences or burden for that matter. I am willing to share whatever I can for my friends here. This is what we are here for in the first place. MyLot is a place for everything. Not we only that we came her to unleash some burden but we also came here to share whatever we think would be beneficial to others. Think of it, when you share some problem by committing a certain mistake, you do not only help yourself, you also help others to know the effect of something without undergoing that same thing. This way, those who were able to read it will not anymore do the same thing because they already know the effect. I have learned a lot of things from this place, and earning some amount is only a bonus. Have a nice day!