What's the foundations of you love?

@HuaZhao (457)
China
November 14, 2012 2:49am CST
Everybody has ones he keep loving.Do you clearly understand your feelings of love. Do you know where is from. Do you know the base of your love and do you know how to love one who is worth loving. Will you love a person just at the first sight? Mylotters, share your story and clear the definition of love.
12 responses
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
14 Nov 12
Mine are concretely based on Trust, faithfulness & above all love. Once I feel betrayed it is hard for me to continue to love someone. When I am in love, I want my man to be entirely and I do not want to share him with anyone. I am to be trusted and I am faithful to my man once I commit myself to him. So, it is only ormal for me to except the same thing in return. :)
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
15 Nov 12
Yes indeed. You are most welcome Dear. :)
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
14 Nov 12
babyeve,thank you very much. Same goal and common habits may be also important.
• China
14 Nov 12
In my heart,love was created by the God.we people couldn't deside who can be loved or not.Just as a peom said by a saint,when love beckons to you, follow him,though his ways are hard and steep.when his wings enfold you , yield to him,though the swoed hidden among his pinions may wound you.
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
14 Nov 12
Thank you,juhuacha.
• China
14 Nov 12
sword.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
14 Nov 12
Well I can only say about two of your questions, one is my hubby was love at first sight. I believe in it and always did. Now the worth of my love would be I always chose the guy who would love me the most. They say a girl must like the guy less than he likes her so for me to be in a relationship it had to be he had to love me a lot, and I found that person.
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
14 Nov 12
Thank you,katie0. But I could make myself believe one only by the frist sight.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 12
Do you know the base of your love? Since I don't read anything about what is love according to you! Only interested in what others have to say or feel or just starting a discussion? The only thing one can say is that it comes to love it has to do with personal feelings. There is not such a thing as a manual for it, there is not a certain foundation to it. You love someome or you don't. Some people can step on your soul for years and you still love them, others can only do that once and they are out. No matter if this is family/child/stranger/partner or best friend. So if it comes to love it's about feelings, a connection, attraction between 2 different people which makes it different each time.
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
14 Nov 12
I believe love is from heart and only the love which can last long and can go through happiness and sorrows is worth plunging into.
@moneyham (201)
• India
15 Nov 12
To be frank i am not believing in love at first sight. In my opinion love has to come deep from the heart. For that it will take some time. You have to know the person exactly what she or he is. For me love is like to support and help when ever your partner need it.
• United States
15 Nov 12
Love, so complex. Like brain surgery. It's really hard sometimes to distinguish love from lust from like.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Nov 12
Love have no definition , it doesn't ask , why , and how . Love cannot be explain , its too incredible to have one explanation . Love have no boundaries and it can be unexpected , most time it is unexpected . Love comes in so many different form , the love of a mother for her unborn child , imagine loving someone you dont even see just expecting . That is how powerful love is . Loving your wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance like they are the centre of the universe , your reason for being . Love can never truly be define in my opinion .
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Love comes from the most unexpected places,moment and time. We can never tell when love strikes in us. Some people do fall in love at the first sight and some even ended up in marriages. The foundation for a lasting relationship is hard to tell. Honesty, truth and faithfulness matters most- but still not reliable to make every relationship last forever.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Love happens unexpectedly. Sometimes you fall in love to a person that you just recently knew or to someone you have known all your life but never imagined ending up as a couple. You love a person not just because of all the good things about him, but because he is someone you have become comfortable to be with and someone whom you connect to so much.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
14 Nov 12
No, I believe in love at first sight. There could be an attraction, but I have to get to know the person. However, I can't point out a single thing as a base foundation of my love, because... well, there's a saying which has the meaning that you truly like something when you can't explain why you like it... that's ultimate beauty. And I do agree. Of course, I like it in my fiancé that he's understanding and helpful and humorous, but that's not WHY I love him... I love him for the way he is, simply.
• China
15 Nov 12
rely on each other until we are old.i don't know her name until now who i falled i love at first sight.but i think that would be a beautiful memory.
14 Nov 12
I believe the saying of falling in love with a person at the first sight,cause it happend to me the first time i met my boyfriend when i was at the age of 19, the picture was so impressive , he got out of the taxi ,standing on the winter sunshine,with a warm smile on his handsome face. The foundation of our love , i think is the feeling of love,maybe because he is my first boy, i cannot make up my mind to give up even in a very taugh period