September 4, 2006 11:55pm CST
How do you deal with a co-worker that is so shallow its annoying to take everyday?
• United States
22 Oct 06
Hmm, thats a tough one, I can be a bit shallow at times, but I notice when others are shallow with me also and it makes me madder than ever. People have got to learn to realize that we are not just our shells. We are also the soul inside of our shell. If they are being shallow with you, the best thing to do is realize how childish they are being. They just need to grow up a bit. Don't let it bother you, just live your life normally, don't let there chlidish ways make you unhappy, you don't deserve it.
9 Oct 06
Just aviod the person and behave as if he is not present at all. try to make him feel uncomfortable, set him up for the boss, complain about him, abuse him in the public, and a lots of other ways. its easy to lose some1 who is after you if you know the correct way.
18 Sep 06
Fine, now i have been faced with such situations so many times in my life and even ignoring doesnt work with them. What i do first is , i respond welll at the begning , now in case he starts annoying me i would just try to ignore him and if that doesnt work i would be away for him for sometime. The best way to deal with such type of persons is to make them feel that you really get annoyed when he is around. I may sound a bit stern and rude but you have to give it sometimes