What will you do if your wife back to her parent and leave you?

@yudhyhg (116)
Indonesia
November 15, 2012 1:23am CST
i've a problem now. my wife didn't comfort with our home condition..she looking angry and dissapoint of me. she decide to go back to her parent and leave me alone in our home.. i am in doubt..what should i do? live with her in her parents house or stay at our home and wait she mindful??
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4 responses
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
Hello yudhyhg, it's really hard to lose someone you love just because of a disagreement. If you love your wife, show her you love her. Not only that but show her that you are in charge of both of your happiness. Listen to her problems without offering solutions and encourage her to do the right. Show her your genuine love and hope that a miracle will happen - which will truly happen. She will realize you are the person she married and she will be more considerate of you and will follow your decisions. She will start submitting to you. I recommend a book about marriage that i know will help you in your relationship with your wife. Here they are: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus Why men don't have a clue, and women needs more shoe Have a great day! I hope your relationship with your wife will return and turn more sweetly. Patience is a virtue, it doesn't happen overnight.
• China
15 Nov 12
Maybe she think you don't love her enough,you can have a deep conversation with her, and know each other's heart.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Nov 12
Hi, Bad move. Now she saw the real situation and she didn't like it so she went out the door. If I were you, I would not bet my life upon such kind of person who can't stand up to trials in life. A real person, who loves you, don't leave you when worst time comes. She should be able to stand by you no matter what. I should not waste my time for a very useless endeavor. Go on, improve your life and when she come back crawling when times get better, you should have to think it over is she's worth it.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
15 Nov 12
make an arrangement with your wife? what does she want? Does she want to be with her parents and give up your marriage? Does she want you to stay with her in her parents' house. What are the things making her uncomfortable in your house. Maybe it is really uncomfortable. What was her expectation when she got married to you, a palace and mansion? What did you tell her that you will give her once you get married. These are the questions I think you have to consider and try to start answering. Then from there if you really have promised her the comfort of the homes and her expectation is a mansion or palace and you can't afford to have those for the sake of marriage go with her in her parents' house. It's not her fault to get angry and fight with you. You have promised her wrongly. But if she knows that you can't afford that much... then you can tell her that you can't live with her parents.