Are you one who think that all bad in your life is because of destiny?

Romania
November 15, 2012 1:37am CST
I believe in destiny, but i am sure that we can help our destiny, can t let just God to do everything...to just wait and see if something good will happent is not my choice. Acting to change something or fight and work for what i want for me is the best decision. Everything in this life can change, just death is permanet.
8 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
I believe that our life depends on our choice, for my own opinion it depends on our hands on what we are now,god is there to guide us but still we are the one's who chose, to decide what we want..
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
Yes so we must not blame others on what is happening to us right now. But sometimes having a hard time would also help you on getting stronger. It's just a matter how you cope up with everything.
• Romania
15 Nov 12
You are so right, our life is in our hands, but God guide us in our choices. Give us power and clean mind to chice what we must choice. We here say that God give us everything but we must choice. Good or bad is only our decision.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
15 Nov 12
No, destiny is a hypothetical control over our lives which would make everything predetermined, which in my opinion belongs with all the other fairy tales. You say that you believe in destiny, yet you also claim that your actions will change the outcome. Surely this is totally contradictory.
• Romania
15 Nov 12
U want to say that our destiny exist when we are borned, when we will die...and our free will can change our life, is a mixture of our will and destiny; destiny exist, but we can help our destiny. In a big book exist our destiny, but not in details, is like a birth certificate; when we are born, when we will die.
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
Destiny is a word that is not the end of something but the start of something worth the while. I believe that in our hands, lies the power to achieve what we want to do, to be, and to have. We can design the kind of destiny that we want. Our own success still lies in our hands and not with other people. If we believe that our destiny is success, then work out a plan to arrive at success, then we have achieved our own destiny. God will just do the rest that we are unable to do as we pursue what is that good and beneficial for us and others, especially those whom we truly care and love most.
• Romania
15 Nov 12
Don t you think that if we are optimistik and all time we believe in what we want to do, is very important, and this can help us very much? A pesimistik person can t have succes, even try a lot.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
15 Nov 12
Hi, I also believe in destiny. We should try to change bad into good. We should not blame our destiny or God for the bad happening. We should try hard and and struggle honestly for the life. Sometimes we don't get expected results after working hard but we should remember that we should try till the end we can get success.
• Romania
15 Nov 12
hi, a friend of mine, amm time saud that all what happened in his life is because of his destiny, and all time i try to make him understand that is only his choice what will be with his life. Of course, that we can fight or protect ourself, but in same time i belive that God guide us as he think that we deserve.
• India
15 Nov 12
Hi friend, i agree with you. I too have faith with destiny, but we have the ability to change our destiny with our self confidence, hard work, effort and determination. God is superior power of us, there is nothing wrong in having faith with him. But we must do our work properly to get success in it, merely believing god without doing any work don't help us to get success in our life. do your work properly and have faith with god, he will help you from his side and you will get success based on your effort and fate. Blaming our fate and god for our mistakes is not a good thing. We are the responsibility of our mistakes and we must rectify our faults and correct it to get success in our life
• Romania
15 Nov 12
Yoi know life teach me, that we can change our life with faith, work and a lot of trust in God.Blaming our fate is a sign of weakness, who believe that he can just wait and God will give him everything,is a big mistake. To get success mean a lot of work...not just gamble or play luck games.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
15 Nov 12
Yes fate, and occurences or consequences from previous actions taken. That's what i perceive it is. Not just BAD, even GOOD. You can not just depend on God for everything I mean, if you need to have a job, you can not just sit and pray that God gives you job without you applying for any at all. Yes only change is permanent.
• Romania
15 Nov 12
Just to wait is not a solution, but i ll say that are situation when we need God help too, just a drop of luck we all need, are situations when even we make everything, the results are not good...than we need a pray to God.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
I believe some bad things happen in ones life are done because some bad people did it to him, some are the result of wrong decisions, and some are disobedient to God.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
I believe that destiny is simply a different perception to everybody. It can actually work both ways. It is God's road that is paved out for us . If we want to follow the road, we can, or we can choose not to (our choice. We control our own decisions that make the moves of our lives, so we control our destiny (where we live and the choices we make).
• Romania
15 Nov 12
You are very right, my perception is same that exist two ways, God and our choices.We control our own decision, and yes, we ca control our destiny.