Hey will you be my friend on this site
By sriroshan
@sriroshan (2585)
India
November 17, 2012 7:09am CST
Hey will you be my friend here? I am sure most of us write to toher members online when we send the friends request to them.
We have seen specially on social networking site, we send to each other friends request even though we does not know each other. Most of the young generation prefer to send the friend request by just seeing the profile photo to opposite site. It is not bad since each male likes to be friendly with female and vice versa. But many time we don't know as per the profile of that person on the particular social networking site is really the Male or Female. There are many fake account male create as female & other way too also.
But in real life such chances are rare and we can choose the right person as our friends after knowing them better and what exactly they are doing and from where they are.
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7 responses
@neel_ahuja (125)
• India
18 Nov 12
as far as i m concerned...dis is wht is do--i first be frnds..with opp person...and..thn...jst say "let time decide...if we cud b.good frnds..dis is jst..strt...".and i talk ekdum sida......and...as far as ur question abt.."samne.wala..person..real hai k.fake "....tht is actualy decided in the due course of chating.....(some ppl do use..many tricks to find real gender of opp person..but ma way is...to get to knw.thru.chat....and..suppose.even..if i m not able to guess if the opp person is real or not.its simple..jst..cam chat.for atlest 2 mins..thts it)..baki aisa todi....hai...k..if we r on each ohters..list..tht means..we indeed a true frnds....frndship needs to b..nurtured...to grow strong. (btw...aapne..mere msg ka reply kyun nahi diya..ye bta pahele...very angry with u i m :( )
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
18 Nov 12
Nicely explain the way and why you want to be friend with someone online, by adding Hindi also in your conversation.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
15 Dec 12
What I want is whether you will be my friend here at Mylot and I appreciate you have used Hindi no problem adding Hindi as long as the other person understand what you mean. I knew Hindi and for me no problem you have used it here. thanks for the reply
@neel_ahuja (125)
• India
20 Nov 12
actualy i didint get wht u asked?...these r the questions i will look out for clarification..1)did u ask me..to explain....y i wanna b frnd with sum one...online 2) "by adding hindi also in ur conversation"-- by this..did u meant....to say..tht i can use hindi in ma expalnation..or is it exactly opp, ie, i shd not use hindi..here
3)or was ur comment..saying it was nicely explained?....by the way...r u also good at hindi?? :O
@philipinensi (7)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
hi :)
thank you for the offer. i would love to be your friend. im new here i would watn to have new friends here. :)
thank you !!
^_^v.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
15 Dec 12
No problem whether you are new or old member here keep in mind here at Mylot we are all equal that's the main reason we share our views by taking part in the discussion posted by members.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
hello there sriroshan,
i would definitely accept your invitation for me to be your friend. hence in this world that we lived in, we have two faces of life, that is online and offline world. thus, if we have friends offline, i think, we should also have sets of friends online.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
18 Nov 12
Yes but many times some people may mislead us also on the online. Any way I am sure members here at Mylot are real one and they won't be the fake as we have heard and read about other social networking site. Thanks for the reply and have a nice & wonderful Sunday airasheila
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
19 Nov 12
Well, online people are more brave to talk to other people where in real life, in person, they are not. I know for myself, at least years ago, I always felt uncomfortable talking to pretty girls. I guess it was a few things like I was young and shy. But as I got older it seemed that all that vanished and went away. I no longer feel nervous around beautiful women. Maybe others feel or felt the same as I did. I also never thought I was good looking and still don't. I guess I never looked at myself as anything like that. But online people can be who and what they want to be. And that also can be dangerous as well. You're right, sometimes you just don't know who you're talking to online.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
15 Dec 12
Yes I agree with you, in real life many time we hasitate to speak to other people with so many doubts in our mind like will be we in a position to talk correctly? will we will be able to impress other and so on. Many time like you had said some people does not go forwards and get mixed up with other people may be they think they are not fit to be in that group or they consider themself that they are not good looking or may be down financially. But here at online we expose ourselves with what we have in form of words.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
27 Dec 12
Thats where the danger comes in online. No one really knows who the other person is. And it takes away that human interaction. Even though I was shy or nervous around women years ago, at least there was the visual aspect. You got to see them and listen to them talk. In that way we can form an opinion. Online all that has been removed and we have to be extra careful who we talk to. But like I said, I never thought of myself as good looking enough to be with a beautiful girl. But as the years past I felt different. Maybe its age. But I never looked at myself as anything special like many others did. But I did meet that special someone, unfortunately I had to be married for years before I met her. I guess she made it possible for me to think differently. And I actually knew here years ago when I was shy. So I never really talked with her because of that. And I never had a clue that she liked me. Now I know and I am happy to be with her.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
18 Nov 12
You are welcome meowchie and surely I will love to add you to my friends list. I am sure you must be doing very well and enjoying on this site. Have a nice Sunday
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
18 Nov 12
Hey that will be very nice of you my friend. I will surely accept you as my friend on this site.
@impressiveboy (22)
• South Africa
15 Dec 12
Hi,
Sriroshan! I'm a fresh user.And I have not any friend in this site and I'm looking your discussion and I'm very liking and very closely feels your feelings because our thoughts are very same and clear so please understand me and You can make me as your Friend through my profile. I'm waiting okay!
