..never judge without knowing them...
By hlfbldmom
@hlfbldmom (743)
Philippines
November 17, 2012 8:31pm CST
"Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what they have been through."
by--Sam Cawthorn
So true, people tend to judge others without knowing what is really going on. People often only allow us to see their outer shell but if we can connect to their hearts, our compassion would flow unabated. I learned to not judge people for whatever actions or behaviors they may have, people are not perfect so people need to stop judging others without knowing them well.
What you think?
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15 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Absolutely true!Unfortunately there are lots of people nowadays are very judgmental, they always put conclusions on other's life.That's the saddest part out here, that there are some of us can't be at ease on just listening to other else's story.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Yeah, lots of them in this world. hehe...They are just making conclusions and yet they gossip it to someone else without even knowing what is going on, on that person.
@iMamom (321)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Ouchhhh....
Hi Hlfbldmom, I do see people very differently sometimes base on their behaviour. However my mind second demotion not to Judge them on what i See.. First expression is not true... some people we dont like are sometimes became are best friends...
:)
happy mylotting.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Mostly happened to us are the people we don't like we judge them easily but when we think of it, they are not really what we think they are. Sometimes we judge them bad because we don't like them or they did something bad to us. But when we get to know them better our impressions changed towards that person.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
a pleasant day to you,
with regard to your post, well, what you have posted is correct. people do not have really the right to judge others. since we taken different path. hence, we do not have any idea at all why others behave in that way. perhaps, it is better to mind your own business rather than giving any unsolicited comments to others life.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 12
I completely agree with you. No one is perfect! We all have flaws so why should we judge someone else when we have flaws too??
On here I find that people tell you what to do or not to do in your current situation and they think they know every detail of your life...Too bad they don't. That is frustrating sometimes...
I am not a person who is quick to judge, I try my hardest not to be that way. I don't appreciate it when people do it to me so I definitely don't want to do it to them!
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Yeah I agree with you...Everyone of us has going through a lot of things that other don't know about it same as them they've been through a lot and we don't know about it so we cannot judge them that they are like this and that because we aren't on their shoes.
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
I agree, some people tend to judge somebody in terms of their physical attributes without even knowing who they really are, they tend to jump in to the conclusion that someone is bad or good without digging deeper to their character.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Nov 12
Hi hl!
Yes, it is so true that we should not judge a person through his/her outwardly conduct. If we do not know a person's background and antecedents, we should wait before judging.
I do not judge (new) people immediately. I first observe their behaviour and conduct and then only I form an opinion about them.
You are also under observation before I make a opinion about you.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
18 Nov 12
exactly true ,we should never ever make the chance and try to predict others without any prior knowledge at all
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Nov 12
Hi.
Every person has a different upbringing in life. We have different cultures and most likely different outlook in life. If we understand this thing, we would more or less have an idea why other people act and react different from us. This alone would be enough for us to avoid the act of comparison and accepting the fact that everyone of us is unique.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
18 Nov 12
Hi friend, you are right, we must be very careful while judging other persons. We must need proper understanding before judging a person, don't judge any one with their physical appearance
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Nov 12
Well said.. everyone has had different things happen to them in their own lifes.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
18 Nov 12
Never compare yourself to anyone because you will find yourself either a greater or a lesser being than the others. Yes. Positive or negative about the people's outer shell we have no right to judge anyone. Learn the person, know what this person has been through. Learn the person's desires and intentions. Don't judge for you not to be judged by others. Do not do undo to others what you like others do unto you. a simple karma
@LovingMySon (224)
•
18 Nov 12
i dont think its fair to judge people by the way they look or act. Its whats underneath the looks and actions that count. People always judge by what they see and i dont think its right.
